tribe: what I want, ideally and second best

May 08, 2014 20:20

Heather described to me what ze thought was the opposite of what I wanted and it was pretty much exactly what I wanted so I thought I'd clarify ( Read more... )

tribe, goals, relationships

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belenen May 9 2014, 20:52:39 UTC
I wonder sometimes if I'm just bad at the whole being-a-person deal... I think maybe most people are happier with more surface connections than I'm satisfied with.

YES. Most people are happy with surfacey stuff and also, this shit is not easy to find! I mean, I was alone -- while searching -- for YEARS and I definitely felt like something was wrong with me but really, our society just produces people who have never been nurtured and cannot connect on a deep level on about a 100-to-1 (at least) rate. So, yeah.

I don't really like game night or movie night because I don't like most of the games and movies that exist, but since it would be good for most people I'd be happy to participate.

I want a group of people who care about being supportive and kind and loving, and creating a space that is safe and comfortable for everyone.

YES.

I would love to have everyone interconnected and I hope you can get to know everyone more and they can get to know you. <3 Abby and Heather and Zawn post the most on LJ (besides me). Roger and ( ... )

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belenen May 9 2014, 23:05:43 UTC
I like word games and get-to-know you or prove-you-know-me or pattern-strategy games (Wise and Otherwise, Malarky, Loaded Questions, Imaginiff, Blokus, IceTowers). On the computer I pretty much like GuildWars2 and that's it. Most people I know like Settlers but I Do Not. I could probably get into D&D/Mage/similar RPGs, I played Mage for a very little while and liked it a lot.

I think rextrocular (Abby), topaznebula (who doesn't post), rmpenguino (who also doesn't post) are the only ones you don't have friended yet who actually have LJs.

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belenen May 10 2014, 03:28:35 UTC
aw, well we can just play the get-to-know-you ones ;-) I got burnt out on Apples to Apples but it may have been long enough that I could enjoy it again!

I'm sure they'd all be okay with it :)

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