Our attitude toward breakups is damaging, and we need to change it in order to help people escape abuse and to allow people to end relationships without losing community. Death and graduations are both endings, but our attitudes toward them are very different; the first, we put off and mourn, the second, we celebrate. If ending a relationship is
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If relationships are seen as having natural ends, completing them is not a wrong or harmful thing to do. This is the attitude I want people to have. It's perfectly okay for relationship endings to be understood as often painful, but they don't have to be seen as attacks on other people.
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In happiest cases there could be a party with all friends where the ex-lovers talk about what they learned from the relationship ( ... )
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