your first two paragraphs made me say, 'oh no' but I read on and was relieved. ;-)
I don't think I could be with someone else if I wasn't sure that Ben was okay with it, so I'd either wait until he was okay with it, or break up with him. The more we talk about it the more comfortable he seems, and I think that if I were to find a person whom I really wanted to be with, he would be okay with it, because we have very similar taste in people, usually. And I do trust his judgment, to an extent -- if he was very against me being with someone, it would give me serious pause. Right now it's all theory, but somehow working through this theoretical stuff seems to be helping us strengthen our relationship a lot. I really wish he'd put his thoughts into text and let me share them, because I feel like I can't do justice to his point of view, and I really respect his way of thinking on this.
That last paragraph brought tears to my eyes each of the several times I've read it ♥ Thank you so much Dee, this comment meant so very much to me *many many hugs* Thank you ♥
I don't think I could be with someone else if I wasn't sure that Ben was okay with it, so I'd either wait until he was okay with it, or break up with him. The more we talk about it the more comfortable he seems, and I think that if I were to find a person whom I really wanted to be with, he would be okay with it, because we have very similar taste in people, usually. And I do trust his judgment, to an extent -- if he was very against me being with someone, it would give me serious pause. Right now it's all theory, but somehow working through this theoretical stuff seems to be helping us strengthen our relationship a lot. I really wish he'd put his thoughts into text and let me share them, because I feel like I can't do justice to his point of view, and I really respect his way of thinking on this.
That last paragraph brought tears to my eyes each of the several times I've read it ♥ Thank you so much Dee, this comment meant so very much to me *many many hugs* Thank you ♥
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