I'm barely hanging on..

[beach_butterfly]

You know i must be the most pathetic girl out there.. So i get a boyfriend on January 6th and now that it's time to break up with him, i don't know how to do it.. He comes back June 10th and i'm scared.. I'm scared of hurting his feelings i suppose. I mean damn i didn't know breaking up with someone would be so damn hard and painful. I really wish

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[anonymous_dork]

You have totally made up your mind?
Totally??
Not waiting for him to come back and open his arms to you.
Well im, of course your best friend and support on what your decision is. I understand that nothing last forever and why the feelings arent there and the reason why you are playing the field and so forth...i understand.....you have alot i mean alot of selections out there.....but as for me i have a different way, well for myself......"i dont need to try on 20 pants to find out only one fits..." Thats my motto.......dont think i want you to apply it to yourself... we are different there, i know......you are young and thirsty and i dont find this wrong in anyway. Shit happens so jea....its okay...im telling you its ALRIGHT. You arent ready and you just need to let it go....its scary in know and you dont want to hurt the guy, but you dont want to live the rest of your life wondering. You are young and have alot to go for...you havent been on ups and downs yet like he has and therefore not ready to settle. So whatever it is just let it out cuz its better now than later. Dont regret anything cuz there isnt anything to regret. Never regret a single relationship cuz its a learning experience. Learn and Do better. Long distance isnt always best...nor a best way to start. Commitments are also hard to brake off. I pity him....i feel so bad for him i cant possibly imagine how you feel. You have done good things to him, so its alright. No i dont consider you a "slut" you are far from that. One bad thing is tho your rely on a "guy" a little too much making you naive. I dont mean it in a bad way im just pointing this out to you. It kinda got me down that it had to end that way. But its a choice you have to make...what you should have done was before he left was to tell him to take a break so he can explore and you can explore and when he come back and its there then jea, but if its gone its gone. Bu thats beside the point now and all i have to say that "Its alright"..... :)

[beach_butterfly]

No i'm not on a "guy" too much making me naive.. I just tend to enjoy the comfort so i stay as long as i can. and no it's not about trying on pants because if the first pair of pants doesn't fit, you're not going to keep it. In a way my first pair of pants didn't fit. So now i'm looking for another pair. Why the hell am i comparing men to pants?! Whatever, point is i didn't know it was going to end this way, i am not psychic, i didn't wait 3 fucking months for him just t0 break up. I don't do that shit and i completely understand what you're trying to say but i can't help but think that you're holding back on me. It's as if you haven't fully said what's on your mind, but who knows. Point is you; i can't keep what i had for ever specially when it didn't work anymore. I rather break up and let him be happy with another girl then keep it going and pretend i'm happy when i'm truly not. Whatever, this is a sensetive topic and all, so that may be why i'm a bit bitchy right now. It wasn't my intent. OK tc bye

[anonymous_dork]

The pants crap is a metaphor...not a fanatic phrase, gosh.
"I rather break up and let him be happy with another girl then keep it going and pretend i'm happy when i'm truly not."....i said that...i dont think you completely understood what i said for you got deffensive....but its alright. i guess...i have alot of things on my mind tend for the mind..it makes the whole me :p .....enough said on this topic im sick of it.

[beach_butterfly]

no i got you. i just get offensive anyway. it's my nature and if you don't like it, too bad. grr, ok sorry!