Lol I'm the total opposite, when I feel happy I just can't imagine being unhappy! And vice versa D: But because I've been unhappy before, it makes me appreciate and cling to the happiness more! Like I'm relieved to not feel that way anymore! Sadly reinforces once again that if I actually knew Subaru in RL I'm probably end up smacking him... XD
I've already known this ever since I got into K8 tbh, haha. But it'd still be fun to hang out with him and the lads sometime~ XD (I feel more at home with guys. I feel like an honorary male XD)
Ah, I'm the opposite! I'd be like the Yoko cause I get nervous around cute guys (er, for Yoko it's girls XD) >.< But gay guys are not a problem so I'd probably do really well with Yasu since he's gay enough XD
Actually I'm more nervous round the gays cos I think they're too cool for me! ...Though this doesn't apply to Yasu XD Lol. Hmm thinking about it I do get mega-nervous round Jedders cos they're young and cute lol but with K8 I feel like I could have a laugh! Sometimes I'm more fun in Japanese than I am in English, lol!
Ah, we are so different XD I guess with the gay guys I feel like they're one of the girls, like they won't judge me on that 'guy' level and thus I can be comfortable. Also, I'm still shyer if I'm speaking Japanese instead of English. Wanna give me some of your 'one of guys'~ness? XD
Lol I always feel like girls are judging me WAY more than guys! I don't care what guys think of me, and with guys what you see is what you get! I'm not a flirty person and I'm not pretty or desirable, so I just try to have a laugh! But girls bitch behind your back and glare at you to your face so they make me nervous! XD Haha I only get shy speaking Japanese if it's in front of English-speakers who also speak Japanese. I cannot speak in front of them! But if it's just Japanese people, that's not so bad! Especially if they don't speak any English! XD Lol I'll give you some ~guy vibes~! I guess I'm like Yasu, I have a girl side and a boy side!
I guess since I don't have that much experience with boys and most of my close relationships have been with girls, I feel nervous that guys won't approve of me or like me. Not necessarily in a romantic sense but like, ugh this girl is not cool. I don't want to talk to her. Then again I have issues with men XD
Anyway, yeah it's worse if there are English-speakers who speak good Japanese. Or even if my Japanese friends are fluent in English then I feel all FAIL XD
But yeah, I can be kind of a guy in the sense that I'm not all about dressing up and make-up/heels and am way more practical than your typical girly girl. But I guess being around guys makes me feel more aware that I'm a 'girl'? Whatever that means XD
Lol with me it's the exact reverse... with guys I feel like you don't have to make much of an effort, but with girls they'll be like "This girl's so boring! I don't wanna be *her* friend!" XD But with guys I don't care if they wanna be my friend, it's just a brief laugh and then we go on our way lol! It's a parent thing, I was always MUCH closer to my dad than my mum.
I do love dressing up and high heels (and I have to wear makeup or it'd just be disaster lol) but I'm not all about ~romance~ and ~feelings~ and shit. XD I like to think I have a balanced gender upbringing! XD ...Though I still feel like I fit in better with guys... It makes me feel like I'm more of a guy! XD
Haha why thank you! XD It probably also explains why I don't have strong feelings about feminism cos I'm just like, this is a non-issue for me XD My mum was the one who likes sport and cars (but also shopping XD) while my dad hated all that stuff, was rubbish at DIY and played hairdressers with me so... XD I guess I didn't see any special gender boundaries when I was growing up! ...Which is why it pleases me when both Subaru and Yasu say things like "Man or woman, doesn't matter" (even leaving aside the sexuality questions this raises, haha!).
I was actually talking to my friend about this, but I was telling her that I think Yasu is in some ways more evolved than your average human being. This may sound silly, especially if you're not really into spirituality/the soul/zen, etc... But someone who can balance and synthesize their opposing parts to that degree is just not normal (in a good way XD). I think most people don't only stick to one definition or category - as human beings we are too complex. But, most of us tend to lean more towards one side or the other. In Yasu his male and female sides seem to be in perfect balance. It's like, woah 0__0 Haha ;D
Subaru can appreciate and understand that complexity and go beyond the boundaries in that way -he's not as limited by gender roles -but he still doesn't personify it the way Yasu does.
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I'll just be BBFs with Yasu instead ;Db
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But gay guys are not a problem so I'd probably do really well with Yasu since he's gay enough XD
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Anyway, yeah it's worse if there are English-speakers who speak good Japanese. Or even if my Japanese friends are fluent in English then I feel all FAIL XD
But yeah, I can be kind of a guy in the sense that I'm not all about dressing up and make-up/heels and am way more practical than your typical girly girl. But I guess being around guys makes me feel more aware that I'm a 'girl'? Whatever that means XD
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I do love dressing up and high heels (and I have to wear makeup or it'd just be disaster lol) but I'm not all about ~romance~ and ~feelings~ and shit. XD I like to think I have a balanced gender upbringing! XD ...Though I still feel like I fit in better with guys... It makes me feel like I'm more of a guy! XD
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Maybe this is why you seem so level-headed! I admire your balanced gender qualities XD
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Subaru can appreciate and understand that complexity and go beyond the boundaries in that way -he's not as limited by gender roles -but he still doesn't personify it the way Yasu does.
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