Another word I hereby forbid in romance novels
"Laving"
I am really, really tired of reading about heroes laving heroines with their tongues, but not on any specific body part.
ETA: ...and now we have the Ebil Gay Bad Guy. I'm not reading closely enough to know if he's Ebil because of the societal difficulty of hiding his persuasion (the book is set in 19th century England), but the whole Ebil Gay Guy is done a little too much.