Another's rage can be beautiful
My dear, dear friend malkatsheva had a rant yesterday that, well, pretty much everyone needs to read.
http://malkatsheva.livejournal.com/19841.html
Warning: if you think that being a mother is a holy calling and that you are supposed to be sacrificing your personhood on that altar, then you're probably going to be a little ticked by what she has to say. But you need to hear it most of all.