old lady 4 life
Random thought:
So if you're in an official relationship and if you're flirting with someone other than your significant other then you don't really care about your bf or gf. Innocent flirting is understandable, but if you're seriously flirting I.e. Giving your number to other people then you really don't care about that person.
I've been in this situation where I was in the guilty light and as much as I said I really cared about that person I really didn't. Of course this doesn't mean you don't give a shit all together, but it all comes down to you don't care enough about the other person to be with them. Now if it's not official then that's different. If the one you want to be with doesn't want to be official and you've discussed this face to face then you're off the hook. It just makes me re-examine my past relationships that were official. With my current I can't imagine being with anyone else and even innocently flirting with someone isn't an option. It's my own personal choice. To me I feel like that's cheating.
If you're gonna be that way then don't be with your bf/gf. I know some situations are complicated and sometimes people do it out of spite or if they're jealous, but I couldn't do that now. And if you're acting that way yes it may be a sign or caring, but if you truly cared about your bf/gf you wouldn't even think of doing that even if they're doing it to you. I'm not saying I'm perfect because in the past I've cheated and I've been a serial flirter, but idk now it rubs me the wrong way. I guess that's saying that Matty is the guy for me.
Idk some guys and gals are ridiculous. Also I guess it's bothering my more now because I've realized how I used to be and it makes me lose respect for my past self because in the moment it felt right or it was fun, but in the end it wasn't.
I've become such an old lady haha. Yes there's time I look at other guys, but I couldn't actually flirt with them now. I'm taken heart, body, and soul. It's not my scene anymore and going out while Matty is away with my girls is def good times, but with him being gone and having guys around makes me feel even luckier for having him in my life. I love him forever and always. I'm soooo over single gal life, but I def enjoyed it while I was in it and for all the single gals live it up and make the best of it :]
Love you girls. Besides Matty you girls are the loves of my life forever and fucking always. MC4L
So if you're in an official relationship and if you're flirting with someone other than your significant other then you don't really care about your bf or gf. Innocent flirting is understandable, but if you're seriously flirting I.e. Giving your number to other people then you really don't care about that person.
I've been in this situation where I was in the guilty light and as much as I said I really cared about that person I really didn't. Of course this doesn't mean you don't give a shit all together, but it all comes down to you don't care enough about the other person to be with them. Now if it's not official then that's different. If the one you want to be with doesn't want to be official and you've discussed this face to face then you're off the hook. It just makes me re-examine my past relationships that were official. With my current I can't imagine being with anyone else and even innocently flirting with someone isn't an option. It's my own personal choice. To me I feel like that's cheating.
If you're gonna be that way then don't be with your bf/gf. I know some situations are complicated and sometimes people do it out of spite or if they're jealous, but I couldn't do that now. And if you're acting that way yes it may be a sign or caring, but if you truly cared about your bf/gf you wouldn't even think of doing that even if they're doing it to you. I'm not saying I'm perfect because in the past I've cheated and I've been a serial flirter, but idk now it rubs me the wrong way. I guess that's saying that Matty is the guy for me.
Idk some guys and gals are ridiculous. Also I guess it's bothering my more now because I've realized how I used to be and it makes me lose respect for my past self because in the moment it felt right or it was fun, but in the end it wasn't.
I've become such an old lady haha. Yes there's time I look at other guys, but I couldn't actually flirt with them now. I'm taken heart, body, and soul. It's not my scene anymore and going out while Matty is away with my girls is def good times, but with him being gone and having guys around makes me feel even luckier for having him in my life. I love him forever and always. I'm soooo over single gal life, but I def enjoyed it while I was in it and for all the single gals live it up and make the best of it :]
Love you girls. Besides Matty you girls are the loves of my life forever and fucking always. MC4L