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[bambi121899]

I think a good thing for me to do would be to change my phone number, change my e-mail (or block people) and stamp any Thrasher mail "Return to Sender

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[marsy_pants]

I am inclined to agree with your counselor. If you still have her number, give her a call. If you need to, go talk about it. We keep files on clients for 7 years whether they come back to us or not. It's state law I think. If you want to talk to me, id be more than willing to listen to you. I don't know the background you have with your counselor and of course don't take any adivce of mine over hers, but I think it is time as well. They have nothing positive to offer you anymore and clearly they are affecting your health, all of it, in a negative way. I'll keep praying for you and I love you.

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[northbyse]

I know we've never been the closest of friends, Jackie, but if you ever want to talk feel, free to give me a call. My cel number is on my facebook page.

Besides, I've never met Matt and he sounds like a great guy. I'd like to meet him.

[diggymarin]

You're in my thoughts. Matt is your family now, keep that in mind and you can see how brilliant your life is and how far you are going. You can't change the past but you can chose to let it change your future---don't give them the satisfaction of that. You may want to tell your uncle again very calmly and adult-like that you don't want to see your mom/grandma--obviously he did what he did out of love (however naive). I've never been through what you are going through but if you ever need to talk let me know. The vicous side of me says screw them all and block all contact...probably not the most stable answer.

[dior_47]

I totally agree with Marin, except for that last part about it not being a stable answer. If you want to have a stable life cutting ties is exactly what you should do. You don't need that in your life, just focus on and expand the good things.

btw, what are our plans for this weekend? maybe we should go out for coffee before skating?