Insanity: the ol' chestnut
alrighty. what a damned weekend it has been. i dunno what anyone thinks, and maybe im just old schooled, but my girlfriend has a male roommate. luckily, i am pretty good friends with her roommate and he is a cool guy. i know i can pretty much trust her and things should be just dandy. BUT THEY ARE NOT. why aren't they? because we are human beings and mistakes can be made. anything can happen. and no offense to women in particular, but they seem to be the ones that follow absolutely no logic. and if they did, they can never fully explain themselves. now, of course tehre are certain rules at my girlfriend's apartment now, because she has a roomie. 1) you can't invite other people over and 2) no one is allowed to be there when they are not there. those sound like good, decent rules, except the second one. its not like i would really like to be alone in their apartment, but i tend to spend the night tehre and if they both wake up really early, then i have to as well, whether or not i really have to. not only that, but if they both decided to go somewhere, then i have to leave. usually, she never just takes off with her roomie unless its for a good enough reason. but i became irritated this morning when she decided to go foodshopping during the hurricane with her roomie. she didin't say much to me except that i would have to leave and she'd call me when they got back. i just got upset because i felt left out. so i went home, took a shower and tried calling her. for an hour, i didn't hear from her and then suddenly she calls me back. she wanted to know what the emergency was, why i had left two messages trying to reach her, and why i was upset over it at all. i guess i was the idiot and i was just worried, but i decided to be honest with her and tell her how i felt. well, now she hasn't talked to me in about 8 or 9 hours. she's been home the entire 8 or 9 hours and she refuses to talk to me because she is so mad at me. i did make one stupid mistake. i did go to her apartment after she had told me she would call me later tonight and she didin't want to talk anymore. i just felt that it would be ridiculous to stew in our own thoughts and that we should resolve things. of course, she flipped when i came over. first she didin't answer the door after i had knocked for quite a while. and then when i came in, i found her in her room mate's bedroom. they were angry i had let myself in, but i just wanted to get back to the usual routine of things and just relax with my girlfriend for the day. if i were a conspirator, i would suspect my girlfriend has it pretty good, sneaking around sleeping with her room mate and then holding a relationship with me. i find it hard to buy into that conspiracy just yet. she really doesn't seem like the type yet, but i can always be proven wrong. things about her ive discovered haven't been too keen on me liking the whole situation. i found out that she was not a virgin after she had told all of her friends and family that she was. im the only one with her secret. why would that have to be such a damn secret? what other secrets would she be keeping from me? well, we also have to think about her room mate. a single (most likely heterosexual) male with a good lookin woman as his room mate. if he played his cards right, he be on easy street. i doubt this because there are a few factors that can prove me wrong. some pieces just dont fit. either way, now it has turned into a three way relationship when it once was a two way. how about that, huh? what a wonderful life it can be! so whether i can trust her or not, i wonder if for the past 8 or 9 hours, how her relationship with her room mate has been affected. what really irks me is why she hasn't decided to talk to me yet. how can she be still so angry with me? i understand that i made a few dumb moves, but i dont think i was warranted this. the backwards logic taht my girlfriend displayed, however, was the fact that she turned things completely around on me. she made me into that bad guy when i got mad about her leaving with her room mate and shoving me out. im sure anyone else would have felt the same way i did, and i didn't even yell at her or threaten her, she just didin't like my attitude. i guess it can happen with a puerto rican that way. but why do girls hide all their secrets until later in the relationship? why cant everyone just come out and be honest about everything? then there'd be no problems. at least not for me. take it or leave it. maybe thats why ignorance is bliss.-Logan