Please don't get involved. This really has nothing to do with you and I'd rather you didn't. Your opinion is noted, but I pose you this rhetorical question, "What would you have done?"
I haven't spoken to either of them about this issue of my own volition pretty much since it happened. It needs to stop being rehashed because it's obvious that it's not going to get resolved. I don't understand why it KEEPS getting brought up. I"m sorry if no one can understand that, but seriously. Do YOU understand why? Because I certainly don't.
It keeps getting brought up because the longer it goes on unresolved, the more and more shitty things you've done come into memory, and it wont die. You could always make a start in the right direction and maybe, you know, apologize or own up to your behavior.
But, seeing as you don't even have anything to say for yourself about the shitty way you treated me, and especially Carson in Japan..that says a lot. And that's nothing compared to all the shit that's been done to Megz and Stina.
Because at one point you were their best friend. For some reason now, you aren't. Thus, they are bringing it up because they want your attention and would in some way like an apology for things that they feel you have wronged them of. It also helps to stir up getting you to talk to them, not in the best way mind you, but it has gotten you to turn back and actually say something to them.
If you don't understand that then, yeah, things aren't going to get resolved.
There are much more civil ways to do things. I'm sorry, an LJ entry is not how a fight that for some reason has lasted this long is going to get resolved.
And at this point this conversation is obsolete. The two of them have blocked me on facebook, which is the epitome of immaturity in my opinion, so I really don't want to have anything further to do with thus, unfortunately.
Pot calling the kettle black. My apologies. But at least I'm not who I was 8 months ago. So if we're done talking about Stina and that whole situation, then I suppose I could talk about what you've done to Matt and Carson? 'Cause I'm pretty sure I could write essays on that whole situation. How about you Papa?
I don't know how you would have given her a big hug, considering how much animosity has been growing. But, I wasn't there so I don't know.
No one said anything about a grudge, at least that I have heard or read, so no worries there on your part. You say that you've tried to talk to them many times. Well... What about? You haven't stated any problems with talking with them. You've only said you've tried. Do they not listen? Do you end up avoiding the topic all together? And if you've been trying to talk to them multiple times, how have you been "leaving them alone and not bother them"?
-Shrugs- I'm not asking for proof or anything mind you, just pointing things out.
I did. Ask her. If she says we didn't, call my mother. She was there.
I called stina probably twice [I admit I haven't tried to call in probably 9 months], and I have IMed her countless times [much more recently... at least once while I was in Japan]... I never got a call back. And as far as the last question, I haven't been unnecessarily bringing the situation up via LJ every few months, and/or saying nasty things to anyone about them.
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Please don't get involved. This really has nothing to do with you and I'd rather you didn't. Your opinion is noted, but I pose you this rhetorical question, "What would you have done?"
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Here's the problem.
I haven't spoken to either of them about this issue of my own volition pretty much since it happened. It needs to stop being rehashed because it's obvious that it's not going to get resolved. I don't understand why it KEEPS getting brought up. I"m sorry if no one can understand that, but seriously. Do YOU understand why? Because I certainly don't.
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But, seeing as you don't even have anything to say for yourself about the shitty way you treated me, and especially Carson in Japan..that says a lot. And that's nothing compared to all the shit that's been done to Megz and Stina.
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Because at one point you were their best friend. For some reason now, you aren't. Thus, they are bringing it up because they want your attention and would in some way like an apology for things that they feel you have wronged them of. It also helps to stir up getting you to talk to them, not in the best way mind you, but it has gotten you to turn back and actually say something to them.
If you don't understand that then, yeah, things aren't going to get resolved.
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And at this point this conversation is obsolete. The two of them have blocked me on facebook, which is the epitome of immaturity in my opinion, so I really don't want to have anything further to do with thus, unfortunately.
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I'm done talking to you about this.
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I'm not holding a grudge against either of them. In fact, I saw Stina at the mall a few weeks ago and was really excited and gave her a big hug.
Yeah. So... I've been leaving them alone and not bothering them, but this keeps "popping up" so to speak.
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No one said anything about a grudge, at least that I have heard or read, so no worries there on your part. You say that you've tried to talk to them many times. Well... What about? You haven't stated any problems with talking with them. You've only said you've tried. Do they not listen? Do you end up avoiding the topic all together? And if you've been trying to talk to them multiple times, how have you been "leaving them alone and not bother them"?
-Shrugs- I'm not asking for proof or anything mind you, just pointing things out.
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I called stina probably twice [I admit I haven't tried to call in probably 9 months], and I have IMed her countless times [much more recently... at least once while I was in Japan]... I never got a call back. And as far as the last question, I haven't been unnecessarily bringing the situation up via LJ every few months, and/or saying nasty things to anyone about them.
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