Mar 31, 2006 14:36
so. how do you define "hanging out"?
i've grown up with the definition that hanging out is pretty much...doing nothing together. maybe it's a socal thing. i dont know. doing nothing can mean many things. so i guess it's not really doing nothing. but it's pretty much bumming around in front of the tv at some point and talking about non/consequential things (maybe). oh. other times, it requires eating (for those people you dont see often aka JOSH GO). =P
it's weird when i want to hang out with someone and they ask...what are we doing?...at this point. i'm at a complete standstill cuz i don't know how to answer that. i usually answer with....uuuuh nothing? i don't understand why we have to do something at all times in order to hang out. why can't we just enjoy each other's company and bum? i mean, we're so busy in our lives running around and doing stuff, so why can't we just slow down and CHILL?
try it sometime. go play with someone and just do nothing. it's great. you don't even have to be talking. just sit. and do nothing together. veg in front of the tv, read, draw, what have you. just do nothing together and see what how relaxing it is....