I've heard a lot of people say that ultimatums in relationships are wrong, but I think there's a big difference between that kind of action in a controlling way and in an honest way. That is, if you truly can't live with her drinking, it is simply honest to say, "I'm sorry, I just can't live with this anymore" vs something like, "I think drinking is bad and you shouldn't do it", if that makes sense. I think it can be a hard distinction but ultimately, you have to think of yourself first and if this is something that is going to make you miserable then you have to be true to yourself, you know
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