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Some of you guys might have received my sms yesterday. The one about a hypothetical dilemma. The one which went something like this: You are caught between 2 people. One is the person you made a commitment to. The other is your soulmate you have known for a long time. If both of them want to go on to the next level with you, e.g. marriage if possible, which one would you choose? Who would be the one you'd want to spend your life with?
Someone replied that a soulmate need not necessarily end up together, and that a commitment has to be honoured, so he'll go with the commitment. Another one replied that finding your soulmate equals finding your other half which perfects complements you, so he'll go for his soulmate instead. There were others which actually didn't know the difference between the two people and didn't give their answers.
If you were in this position, what would you do?
In case you were thinking what has happened to me thinking of this question, this is what happened:
I was watching The trailer for "Tiramisu", the one which was talking about the love of your life and your soulmate, and I suddenly thought of who to choose if I were in such a position. I kind of have my answer after a while, but then I forget about it. Then another "Tiramisu" trailer came up, and I was reminded, and I asked those whom I know to send me their views.
Speaking of watching TV, I realised that i've become more and more bimbotic. I used to concentrate on the contents when I watched the news a few months back, but now when I watch the news, I look at the people in the footages and critique on their clothes, looks, features, etc. I watch a footage of New Orleans and all I can say is "That guy in the dirty brown top would look so hot if he lost weight". I watched some made-for-tv movie a few days ago and I saw this guy pulling this heavy thingy up the hill (notice the word 'thingy' because I forgot the exact word for it), and all I could say is that "That is a good cardio and butt workout".
It must be all the smoking. Channel NewsAsia was showing this report which states that smokers risk the loss of IQ and thinking skills compared to non-smokers. So I gathered that all my IQ must've been lost through the nicotine and tar and what-not chamicals in my body whenever I take a puff. Weird huh?
Oh I just realised something I've been meaning to talk about but never did because of my stupid forgetfulness, and that is the futility of having online profiles which display their faces, bodies and god forbid appendages on gay portals like Fridae, SGBOY and Axcest, and then acting all holy and straight and trying to cover up their homosexuality in real life. Chances are if you're found out online, you'll definitely be found out off line as well. The human mentality is not very trustworthy. Only a very few people can keep secrets. The rest will keep it for a few weeks (months if you're lucky) and then blurt it out to someone else who will then blurt it out to someone else, and the chain continues. so you're friend whose you're mother's third cousin's first nephew's second aunt's gym trainer's best friend's hairdresser who happens to be your office partner will definitely find out about your sexuality somehow. Don't delude yourself. Either put up a picture of youself and be out and proud, or don't put up any photo's at all and remain anonymous.
Don't put up any headless pics either. If I want to look at artistic pictures I'd go to an art exhibition, not among the personals. If I want to look at clothes-less pics I'd look at porno mags. If I wanted to look at headless pics I'd buy a magazine and cut off the heads of the celebs in the pictures. And if I want to look at headless clothes-less pics I'd cut the heads off the porn models. Simple. Be yourself and be proud of it. Period. Which reminds me to buy those night use pads.
Someone replied that a soulmate need not necessarily end up together, and that a commitment has to be honoured, so he'll go with the commitment. Another one replied that finding your soulmate equals finding your other half which perfects complements you, so he'll go for his soulmate instead. There were others which actually didn't know the difference between the two people and didn't give their answers.
If you were in this position, what would you do?
In case you were thinking what has happened to me thinking of this question, this is what happened:
I was watching The trailer for "Tiramisu", the one which was talking about the love of your life and your soulmate, and I suddenly thought of who to choose if I were in such a position. I kind of have my answer after a while, but then I forget about it. Then another "Tiramisu" trailer came up, and I was reminded, and I asked those whom I know to send me their views.
Speaking of watching TV, I realised that i've become more and more bimbotic. I used to concentrate on the contents when I watched the news a few months back, but now when I watch the news, I look at the people in the footages and critique on their clothes, looks, features, etc. I watch a footage of New Orleans and all I can say is "That guy in the dirty brown top would look so hot if he lost weight". I watched some made-for-tv movie a few days ago and I saw this guy pulling this heavy thingy up the hill (notice the word 'thingy' because I forgot the exact word for it), and all I could say is that "That is a good cardio and butt workout".
It must be all the smoking. Channel NewsAsia was showing this report which states that smokers risk the loss of IQ and thinking skills compared to non-smokers. So I gathered that all my IQ must've been lost through the nicotine and tar and what-not chamicals in my body whenever I take a puff. Weird huh?
Oh I just realised something I've been meaning to talk about but never did because of my stupid forgetfulness, and that is the futility of having online profiles which display their faces, bodies and god forbid appendages on gay portals like Fridae, SGBOY and Axcest, and then acting all holy and straight and trying to cover up their homosexuality in real life. Chances are if you're found out online, you'll definitely be found out off line as well. The human mentality is not very trustworthy. Only a very few people can keep secrets. The rest will keep it for a few weeks (months if you're lucky) and then blurt it out to someone else who will then blurt it out to someone else, and the chain continues. so you're friend whose you're mother's third cousin's first nephew's second aunt's gym trainer's best friend's hairdresser who happens to be your office partner will definitely find out about your sexuality somehow. Don't delude yourself. Either put up a picture of youself and be out and proud, or don't put up any photo's at all and remain anonymous.
Don't put up any headless pics either. If I want to look at artistic pictures I'd go to an art exhibition, not among the personals. If I want to look at clothes-less pics I'd look at porno mags. If I wanted to look at headless pics I'd buy a magazine and cut off the heads of the celebs in the pictures. And if I want to look at headless clothes-less pics I'd cut the heads off the porn models. Simple. Be yourself and be proud of it. Period. Which reminds me to buy those night use pads.