I think most reasonable people understand that having a sexual kink doesn't mean it is acceptable for that person to be abused in a non-consensual way (even if their kink is based on pain or humiliation).
However, it can lead to victim-blaming. I am wondering whether anyone has seen any of this directed towards Rihanna?
Let's remember that this is what she looked like after her then-boyfriend Chris Brown got done with her:
And this is her latest song:
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Is this her way of taking her power back?