"The GBF Phenomenon..."

[draion]

I wish this community were a lot more active.

I couldn't help but think about a certain post left in the fashin community not too long ago, about gay best friends being a "must-have accessory" for many teenage girls (as well as women).

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[toxic_swamp]

yes, you're right. slightly defeatist. however, with age comes wisdom? haha i checked your profile and saw you are 18 - things are fantastic then. i just caught up w mates from then last night (we're all 25 now! :\) and talked about all the changes (and things which haven't). but trust me, things slowly change. everyone moves on/away and relationships shift.

im still the odd one out. im still the one who wants more. im still the one not completely satisfied with drinking all night and sleeping around, talking exclusively about sex/guys. i want someone who stimulates my mind more than my body (because in turn it would stimulate my being).

are we destined to be alone? perhaps. the older i get the more i realise things dont change unless you make them. and you can learn and unlearn almost anything. however, at the core, you are fundamentally the same for life. which means do the same thing, get the same result.

i do have some straight guy friends and have been surprised by guys, but on the whole it's hard where i live (the str8 world doesn't really understand/accept the gay world).

i think, despite my cynicism, im still holding out for my other half. im just not sure anyone else is.