who the hell would settle down with me?

[aucune_lumerie]

I've thinking a lot lately about... marriage. And excuse my crass language - its usually how I deal with these things

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[shirafuzzy]

HEY EXCUSE ME MISSY MY RELATIONSHIP IS NOT DISINTEGRATING HORRIBLY

I didn't know what to do either, our first time. It felt good and my body kind of took over. Your body will too, eventually.

And the babies thing -- I'm not looking forward to pregnancy either. I'm not looking forward to nine months of feeling like a whale and then the birth process and all the bleeding afterwards but the idea of one day having a little boy or a little girl that came from *me* -- That's what I look forward too.

Just be you. And you'll find someone.

(But on your 21st, can we go to the gay bars and go dancing? I think that would be lots o' fun. That's what we're doing on mine.)

[aucune_lumerie]

Lol, well I was thinking of conventional couples, but I'm fully aware that yours is alive and kicking. :D

As for the gay bars and dancing? I approve. :D

[shirafuzzy]

Okay goodie. To both. <3

[fairestthings]

I have gobs to say on this... literal gobs. No where near comment-worthy. I may be posting an entry that is basically aimed at this one, lol.

[aucune_lumerie]

Please do!! It would ease my mind

[fairestthings]

Really?! I had begun to, then deleted it because I thought it'd be too haughty of me to sit there and reply like that. I very much do NOT want to come across as "I'm married, you're not, so I know all". And the advice I want to give... is not run-of-the-mill, lol.

Ease your mind of what, hon? Marriage, no matter how prepared you are for it, is going to be a plunge into cold oceanic waters. It's only worth it if you're holding the hand of someone you can laugh all the way down with, though.

[aucune_lumerie]

Yeah, really. Your opinion matters to me, sugar.

It would ease my mind if I heard all the marriage crap from someone I know... not just some girl magazine or freaking Ghandi.