also...if something bothers you, call him on it. If it bothers you its not ok to just let it go and think he will change. if im reading this right your saying he takes pictures of nekked chicks Oo unless he does it for a job...nottttt cool. just my opinion i guess...but i wouldnt want to have my girl taking pictures of nekked guys. jealousy is good in moderation. Its when you do something irrational about it that it gets its bad rap. if your jelous, and call him on it, and say it bothers you...and he stops...thats good cuz he respects you. if he dosent stop, he dosent respect your opinion or views on relationships.
anyways....happy new freaking year or someshit like that....blah desu
Yeah this is hilarious because I meant to make this friends only LMFAO
Anyway, I did call him on it, and I said yeah I do have a big jealousy problem now, and there's no reason I shouldn't, really. But anyway, he said too that he'll settle down on it. So it's all good now. My main deal was.. I keep bringing things up with him that I disapprove of, and I just don't want to be -too- anal, you know?
This sounds harsh.asif_klijnJanuary 1 2005, 18:54:24 UTC
THIS SOUNDS HARSH BUT
Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free? This applies for both guys and girls, good reason why people tend to wait with sex till marriage, reason why i am too.
Re: This sounds harsh.atrayuJanuary 1 2005, 21:46:53 UTC
Because I have an attachment problem. I love having a boyfriend. I enjoy being single, too, but I desire that monogamous or whatever closeness.
I waited until I was 18 to have sex, and that doesn't say much with so many people waiting until marriage, but it says a lot when people are having sex at age 13 or so.
Oooooo doggy do I understand. NO your not irrational, your normal. And this jealousy thing is normal. Everything I'm going to say is strictly my opinion so take it with whatever you want. Trash it if necessary. I think this is all stemming from a lack of trust. When Matt went and had his transcretions with Natalie, I did alot of what you mentioned above. I wanted to be in the picture at all time, I wanted Natalie completely out of it. I wanted to know where he was at and what he was doing at all times because frankly I felt that if I didn't know, everything I couldn't keep tabs on was just an open avenue for Natalie to step back in and the transcretions to continue
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I know I have to put my foot down on this, but you know that a guy can only take so much, that he'll cheat or leave if his girl nags too much, etc. And I fear that, so I don't want to complain or whatever too much, you know?
Bleh. Well there's a situation going on here now.. one of his friends is having guy trouble as well, and she's crying her full head off, feeling unappreciated, etc. So I'm gonna go try to help with that. I love how I try to help others even when I'm having problems ;)
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also...if something bothers you, call him on it. If it bothers you its not ok to just let it go and think he will change. if im reading this right your saying he takes pictures of nekked chicks Oo unless he does it for a job...nottttt cool. just my opinion i guess...but i wouldnt want to have my girl taking pictures of nekked guys. jealousy is good in moderation. Its when you do something irrational about it that it gets its bad rap. if your jelous, and call him on it, and say it bothers you...and he stops...thats good cuz he respects you. if he dosent stop, he dosent respect your opinion or views on relationships.
anyways....happy new freaking year or someshit like that....blah desu
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Anyway, I did call him on it, and I said yeah I do have a big jealousy problem now, and there's no reason I shouldn't, really. But anyway, he said too that he'll settle down on it. So it's all good now. My main deal was.. I keep bringing things up with him that I disapprove of, and I just don't want to be -too- anal, you know?
Thanks for the reply, Joe :)
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Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?
This applies for both guys and girls, good reason why people tend to wait with sex till marriage, reason why i am too.
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I waited until I was 18 to have sex, and that doesn't say much with so many people waiting until marriage, but it says a lot when people are having sex at age 13 or so.
Thanks for your reply, Asif :)
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I know I have to put my foot down on this, but you know that a guy can only take so much, that he'll cheat or leave if his girl nags too much, etc. And I fear that, so I don't want to complain or whatever too much, you know?
Bleh. Well there's a situation going on here now.. one of his friends is having guy trouble as well, and she's crying her full head off, feeling unappreciated, etc. So I'm gonna go try to help with that. I love how I try to help others even when I'm having problems ;)
Thanks, Kristina :)
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