painting a picture of my work world
well, you know how i was talking about a new job the other day? well this job, i was just handed. the truth is, i shouldn't have taken it. i thought i could handle it but i could not
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sometimes there are things that are too intimate of a nature to charge for.. and i can agree where that would be uncomfortable.
however, if you look at it as being an artist with ropes, perhaps you could find a job with a bondage company that requires the help of such an artist.. but that's only if you care to be a "rope artist"- though usually, even then, it's dom/mes that offer such services as an artist as well as a sex therapist, so maybe you're just fine with it being too intimate to soil with monetary transaction.
i can relate with what my line of work calls "cam2cam". i don't offer it with strangers. it is uncomfortable for me to see them see me. if i already know them and am attracted to them, i will do it- but if that's the case, i don't charge. because at that point it's two friends sharing something. when it's just a customer watching me, it's more of a turn on that i don't have to know what they look like, and i can feel like i'm choosing to share something with a stranger and be paid for my entertainment value. once it becomes personal, it is no longer "work".
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