Sep 14, 2005 17:02
I don't understand why everyone has to get involved with something that only really includes a few people. When twelve people get involved in a situation that only really has anything to do with three, the situation gets blown out of proportion and gets SCREWED UP!!! I hate gossip and everything that goes along with it. It messes everything up. Don't talk about something you know nothing about. And if you don't know then don't assume that something is going on or whatever, just ask the people involved. It's that simple. When all these other extra people get involved, no one knows the truth or where what story came from who. If you have an issue with someone about anything, GO TO THAT PERSON....IT'S THAT SIMPLE!! It really is, I swear it. I know that when stuff happens and a lot of emotions are surrounding the situation it's hard not to find out what is going on but it truly FUCKS EVERYTHING UP!!! GIRLS SUCK!! It's the cold hard truth. But we do. I know I am one of them but when something happens and a person tells you in confidence you don't go tell someone else...it's not that difficult to let the two people that it involves to sort it out. I realize now that I can't trust people to keep things to themselves and I hate that because I really thought I could depend on certain people to keep something to themselves. Something that could easily have been discussed between the people it actually involves has now become a huge fiasco because people don't know how to keep their mouths shut, apparently I'm guilty of that too because I went to someone because I didn't know what to do and what I told them was then relayed to the person I needed to talk to before anyone. Why do people do shit like that. DAMN YOU ALL!! I'm not so much angry that you went and told the person but now you give me dirty looks and barely speak to me, why? I didn't do anything to you directly. I know that when something involves your friends you feel as though it involves you, but it doesn't! If you have an issue with me come talk to me, don't ignore me, that just makes me more angry!!! So please come talk to me so we can get over this since instead of three original people it now involves at least six!!!