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It seems like every entry in here has been full of complaints, and "fuck it"'s. I went through, and there really hasnt been anything that has any positive energy, or sense of worth other than to bring things down. Like this one. And im not a bitch, and i admit that i'm complaining.
:::: Warning: This is not a sexist generalization bashing the male species, just a simple ramble of a portion. ::::
so the popular view exists and remains still to this day that there is no such thing as a boy being a girls friend without some kinda of attraction or hidden agenda. I've heard it from many many people in the past few months, and honestly, im getting pretty fuckin sick of it.Anytime someone will tell me.. " ohhh, thats what he wants you to think", or " oh, just a 'friend'", i feel like screaming. Let me ask you GUYS with a girlfriend,a solid and dedicated girlfriend, all a question. WHATS THE BIG FUCKIN DEAL? We tell you we love you, and its like it's a " YES! thats awesome, but yea, guys? no". I dont think any of you really understand how that makes us feel, me at least. Think about it... we L O V E you, that means that when we see you lights go off. alot of us will go to the end of the earth and back for you, some even sink so low as to drop everything and everyone. We are all human, there are always people that others are gunna be attracted to, that other people are going to see as hot, or fun, but what is there more? There is no spiritual connection, there's nothing more than something that you see. And in some cases, it isnt even something you see, it actually is a friendship.
so now that you have just gone and bashed what i said about how guys will still always have something. SO WHAT. I ask you all, SO WHAT, this goes for girls too... if a guy/girl finds ur bf/gf attractive, and is still there friend, or aquaintence. It's not like we're going to leave you in a second to jump on another train. Thanks for puting the idea of us being degraded into our heads. not all girls/guys are shit like past relationships any of you migh have had. SO whats the big deal, dont you all have enough respect for us, or trust in us that we'll shoot down anything thrown at us? I guess not. Dont you think that if we're in a situation that we fuckin feel uncomfortable in, we'll get out of it. fuck. I can understand the safety factor, but i swear, sometimes people need to trust other people. I'm tired of blowing people off, tired of not calling someone because i'll have to be interigated and lectured for a simple conversation that may last more than five minutes.
you say i'm selfish???
I say put urself in my shoes,
but i know you dont.
so wake the fuck up.
:::: Warning: This is not a sexist generalization bashing the male species, just a simple ramble of a portion. ::::
so the popular view exists and remains still to this day that there is no such thing as a boy being a girls friend without some kinda of attraction or hidden agenda. I've heard it from many many people in the past few months, and honestly, im getting pretty fuckin sick of it.Anytime someone will tell me.. " ohhh, thats what he wants you to think", or " oh, just a 'friend'", i feel like screaming. Let me ask you GUYS with a girlfriend,a solid and dedicated girlfriend, all a question. WHATS THE BIG FUCKIN DEAL? We tell you we love you, and its like it's a " YES! thats awesome, but yea, guys? no". I dont think any of you really understand how that makes us feel, me at least. Think about it... we L O V E you, that means that when we see you lights go off. alot of us will go to the end of the earth and back for you, some even sink so low as to drop everything and everyone. We are all human, there are always people that others are gunna be attracted to, that other people are going to see as hot, or fun, but what is there more? There is no spiritual connection, there's nothing more than something that you see. And in some cases, it isnt even something you see, it actually is a friendship.
so now that you have just gone and bashed what i said about how guys will still always have something. SO WHAT. I ask you all, SO WHAT, this goes for girls too... if a guy/girl finds ur bf/gf attractive, and is still there friend, or aquaintence. It's not like we're going to leave you in a second to jump on another train. Thanks for puting the idea of us being degraded into our heads. not all girls/guys are shit like past relationships any of you migh have had. SO whats the big deal, dont you all have enough respect for us, or trust in us that we'll shoot down anything thrown at us? I guess not. Dont you think that if we're in a situation that we fuckin feel uncomfortable in, we'll get out of it. fuck. I can understand the safety factor, but i swear, sometimes people need to trust other people. I'm tired of blowing people off, tired of not calling someone because i'll have to be interigated and lectured for a simple conversation that may last more than five minutes.
you say i'm selfish???
I say put urself in my shoes,
but i know you dont.
so wake the fuck up.