joedecker has a post up about rape, and it got me thinking again. Give it and the comments and links over there a read, it's something that could stand to be circulated. Then, from personal experience here, I'd like to make sure to throw out that just because someone had sex with you once, just because you're dating, just because you're married, whatever ( Read more... )

How do you get your parents to understand that you're going to come home with bruises on your neck when you like rough sex, it's a given. No, I don't consider bearing marks immature or childish. And that's just the one where she bit me, she bruises way too easily and it looks like I beat the shit out of her. :(