It will come as no surprise to exactly no one who knows me that I don't want to have kids. I've fantasized for years about permanent sterilization, but, of course, I know how much our desires and inclinations can change over time, so I always had age 40 in mind as the point at which I would pursue a permanent solution to the problem of my potential ( Read more... )

( This post is about me and my choices about not having kids. If you think you might take it personally, please skip it. )

Today, for Figment, I wore a stripy black and white circle skirt, with silver spangles all over it. Because it's a circle skirt, it flares out a lot, and led to this conversation ( Read more... )

I'm in Ohio, where I've been since Friday. kcatalyst and trom have been taking me to all the places with awesome food and tempting me with their gardening plans for their big back yard and generally trying to sell me on Columbus. It's been great fun! I have largely not read LJ. If there's something you want me to be sure to see and I haven't commented on it, ( Read more... )