let me tall you what is NOT ok.

[archerpren]

i am a waitress. you all know that. i dont mind it but its not my favorite job either. im not terrible at it but im not great at it either. i am competent. i am friendly and given the opportunity i will float you out of the building cause i cam GOOD at refils. here is what is not ok. being a drunken biligerent ass hole to your waitress all night

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[archerpren]

you know what. untill a few years ago i couldnt get a recomendation to ANY job id ever had, and id had alot of them (i tend to work at multiple places at once) because i have a really hard time keeping my mouth shut with people like that. and with flamingly incompotent managers (and you get alot of those in retail).

i agree with the noone treats me like that in sentiment and used to in practicality as well but when i started working at a job a friend got for me when i was desparate i didnt want to make him look bad for getting me the job so i started biting my lip towards one manager that would seak me out and SCREAM at me at the front desk till i cried.

now i feel like for the most part the people who come into cpk are nice folks and i make alright money there...is it worth keeping that job to take that shit from a few people? i dont know frankly. if i could host full time there (without having to work 3 hours in the morning and 3 hours at night 7days a week) i would totally stay there. but who knows what will happen. i didnt loose my cool on those people but i had a total sobbing melt down in the back room when they bailed without paying.

[jennifleur]

You are amazing. I don't think I'd be able to keep my big ol trap shut. ;^)

I once walked in to the office of the owner of a company I worked for after he gave me crap that I didn't care about this business because I wasn't going to the summer BBQ. (I had a baptism to go to) It was 10pm at night, I was working my ass off late after being there all damn day and he had the *nerve* to tell me that? I thought it over decided I didn't need the job that bad and followed him into his office and asked him who the hell he thought he was saying I didn't give a crap... blah, blah, blah. Anyway, I didn't get canned (whew~) and he actually had more respect for me in the end. Of course you can't really do that in retail.

HOWEVER, your manager is an ass for not sticking up for you and company policy is crap if they make the servers pay for dinners out of pocket on dine and dashers. I'm just sooo mad for you!!! Rawr!