eli dont u think uve hurt her enough????? i did not sit there and listen to her cry all night bcos she didnt. she went to sleep after a while and i couldnt get to sleep. i came to help clean up because i was bored and its just something i do. it was true that i didnt say we were going to hook up that day and i was very stupid to even consider hooking up with you at all. me and lizzie are still friends and we never want to speak to you again. ur such a fukin player eli! dont bother calling me bcos i will just yell at you.
how have i hurt her? what did i do that was wrong?
whyd you TELL me she was crying all night then?
i never ASKED to hook up that day. nor WOULD i. the only circumstance i'd want to do so is if lizzie and i went on a break, she was aware and ok with it, and not within a fortnight to a month of all this shit.
im glad your still friends. i was worried about that.
im not a player. the only reason i'd call you would be to make sure you and lizzie are ok.
hold on.. go back a few. WHY THE FUCK DID YOU TELL LIZZIE I TRIED TO HOOK UP WITH YOU ON NEW YEARS DAY! YOU LYING FUCKING BITCH! HOW DARE YOU SAY SOMETHING LIKE THAT! I'D NEVER EVEN THINK ABOUT THAT. NOT TO MENTION TRYING TO TAKE YOU SOMEWHERE TO DO SO! ASK ANYONE WHO WAS THERE THATS A FUCKING LIE. WHY WOULD YOU EVEN SAY SOMETHING LIKE THAT???? Why??? what did you mean to achieve by lying about that and making me look like some sick horny shallow fuck???? I'D NEVER DO THAT YOU LYING SCUM
i never said that. lizzie assumed that u wanted to hook up with me on new years day. i said that u wanted to hook up and u told me this on new years. people get the worng idea a lot of the time u know eli. u shouldnt assume that its all my fault cos it isnt
you should have clarified that, given i did when i said it. plus, what are you trying to achieve by coming on here and yelling at me like that. please. hostility is bad. find inner peace.. lol
Fixing this mess doesn't start with insults...think about what you're saying here.
I find it hard to believe that people that once called themselves friends turn on him at a time where EVERYONE who was involved feels terrible about this ongoing saga.
im so sick of fighting everyone whenever something happens. people should just stay out of it, its none of their business and they just dont understand. of course i could try to explain exactly why this is this way and why i felt this and that but itll sound like lies because im trying to justify it. of course itll sound like bullshit. noone ever listens to someone trying to explain detailed emotions. if everyone would just stay out itd all be ok. the point is whatever happened lizzie was right there and said it was ok, and she did exactly the same thing right back... why arent i pissed off at her? because theres no reason for anyone to be angry! so everyone be the peaceful friends they should be. dont be hatin' ... ... ... DUMP!!! (joe told me to write that)
Are you completely socially inept? Your obviously a smart guy cos U write really well but 'What have you done?!' It's new years! you've chosen the shityest time eva to break up with someone. If you've been wanting to for ages then you shouldn't have strung it out. It's just not fair. And incase U didn't no, para or not- hooking up with a girl friend's best friend is a major tabo. It'll only ever cause problems. Watch any 3rd rate teen movie; the principle in unanamious. And doing it all in the same night without even properly breaking up with her first is STUPID!!! Maybe you suffer from a kinda mild autism. Get help.
thanks for not being totally abusive, i like having intelligent conversations too. i asked lizzie if we could go on a break, not break up, but not doing anything without permission. then, after that was decided, i asked if it was ok for me to hook up with her friend, and if she was sure, she said absolutely, and she hooked up with the same people i did, and this guy called pearce, and possibly more people (ive heard so but theres a lot of rumours at the moment). i think its pretty mutural, she did the same thing that i did, and at the time that was all happening she was still ok with it. if shes gonna be offended she shouldnt have done the same thing.
plus im not saying me being drunk was an excuse. she said that because she was drunk, i shouldnt have listened to her. its not my fault she made an error of judgement under the influence. i was under the influence too so i'd say its fair that i listened to her.
wow, these are pretty full on comments you're getting.
I have to say i don't think what you did wazs all that clever, and sure, you were drunk, but thats never been a really great excuse, has it? (im not trying to come across bitchy here, so please don't take it that way)
Anyhow, i think it will be a learning experience for you. I hope you learn well. :)
Hope you haven't lost Lizzie for good. (maybe someone will kill me for saying that)
yeah im used to full on comments. if your bored look in my archives (old entrys) for one with over 40 comments. that shit was harsh, i dont know why everyone has to shout, i mean three four days ago werent these people my friends? geez.
dont worry i wouldnt scream at you unless you screamed at me. have a look at the comment above, maybe itll sorta answer stuff.
i dont know if i want lizzie back, to be honest. i miss her being in my life but i dont think i want to be in a relationship with her agian. i think the bottom line is damn, were 16 years old (or 15 for some) were not going to be in a relationship for the rest of our lives, noones really ready for a long term relationship, so we shouldnt try to take things so seriously! i mean sure theres john someone, who met this girl when he was five and is still with her at the age of five hundred and twenty three, but be serious. most of us arent ready for serious commitment, so save yourself the pain
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whyd you TELL me she was crying all night then?
i never ASKED to hook up that day. nor WOULD i. the only circumstance i'd want to do so is if lizzie and i went on a break, she was aware and ok with it, and not within a fortnight to a month of all this shit.
im glad your still friends. i was worried about that.
im not a player. the only reason i'd call you would be to make sure you and lizzie are ok.
hold on.. go back a few. WHY THE FUCK DID YOU TELL LIZZIE I TRIED TO HOOK UP WITH YOU ON NEW YEARS DAY! YOU LYING FUCKING BITCH! HOW DARE YOU SAY SOMETHING LIKE THAT! I'D NEVER EVEN THINK ABOUT THAT. NOT TO MENTION TRYING TO TAKE YOU SOMEWHERE TO DO SO! ASK ANYONE WHO WAS THERE THATS A FUCKING LIE. WHY WOULD YOU EVEN SAY SOMETHING LIKE THAT???? Why??? what did you mean to achieve by lying about that and making me look like some sick horny shallow fuck???? I'D NEVER DO THAT YOU LYING SCUM
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I find it hard to believe that people that once called themselves friends turn on him at a time where EVERYONE who was involved feels terrible about this ongoing saga.
Simply shouting at a porblem won't fix it.
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im so sick of fighting everyone whenever something happens. people should just stay out of it, its none of their business and they just dont understand. of course i could try to explain exactly why this is this way and why i felt this and that but itll sound like lies because im trying to justify it. of course itll sound like bullshit. noone ever listens to someone trying to explain detailed emotions. if everyone would just stay out itd all be ok. the point is whatever happened lizzie was right there and said it was ok, and she did exactly the same thing right back... why arent i pissed off at her? because theres no reason for anyone to be angry! so everyone be the peaceful friends they should be. dont be hatin'
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plus im not saying me being drunk was an excuse. she said that because she was drunk, i shouldnt have listened to her. its not my fault she made an error of judgement under the influence. i was under the influence too so i'd say its fair that i listened to her.
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I have to say i don't think what you did wazs all that clever, and sure, you were drunk, but thats never been a really great excuse, has it? (im not trying to come across bitchy here, so please don't take it that way)
Anyhow, i think it will be a learning experience for you. I hope you learn well. :)
Hope you haven't lost Lizzie for good. (maybe someone will kill me for saying that)
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dont worry i wouldnt scream at you unless you screamed at me. have a look at the comment above, maybe itll sorta answer stuff.
i dont know if i want lizzie back, to be honest. i miss her being in my life but i dont think i want to be in a relationship with her agian. i think the bottom line is damn, were 16 years old (or 15 for some) were not going to be in a relationship for the rest of our lives, noones really ready for a long term relationship, so we shouldnt try to take things so seriously! i mean sure theres john someone, who met this girl when he was five and is still with her at the age of five hundred and twenty three, but be serious. most of us arent ready for serious commitment, so save yourself the pain
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