My philosophical musing

[arcanapi]

This occurred to me about the "right" person and such... Much inspired by Crudmonkey's determinism/free will debate.

Don't get me wrong, I'm definitely not angsting. It's more an interesting thought of my day. :D

Comments

[glub_glub]

I think that the "right" person for you changes as you develop your personality. I mean, you can be totally *IN LOVE* with one person for years, and be totally convinced that he/she is The One, but then as your personality changes and theirs changes, you become "wrong" and a new "right" person may appear. I also think that everyone has more than one "right" person. Technically, the person who you think of as your Best Friend (of the same sex, if you're heterosexual) could potentially be your "right" person, but your current personality (heterosexual) doesn't allow you to see that. Same thing if you're homosexual with your best friend of the opposite gender. They may be your soul mate, but you don't think of them as The One because your personality is telling you you're romantically attracted to people of the same sex as you. This is why everybody needs to keep an open mind on bisexuality, so that they can see the "right" person despite their gender. That's all for my social issues musings. Ciao.

[riko]

YES!!!!! Right on the MARK.
mean.
Fuck, I love you, Kate. In any way you'd like that to

[riko]

And now, because that somehow changed in posting, I meant to say:

YES!!!!! Right on the MARK.

Fuck, I love you, Kate. In any way you'd like that to mean.

[glub_glub]

Heh. I love you too. And you wouldn't believe how much I appreciate someone actually *agreeing* with my POV on a social issue. That like, never happens, lately.

[glub_glub]

I hate semantics. And of course the guys argue them all the time. What's the first part of that word look like? Hmmm...