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Ok so today I get to talk about my absence levels with my Team Leader and we get to decide whether or not I get to go on a written warning for it. The thing is there's so many damn things that could be causing it that I have no idea where to start. As I have mentioned before I have never been ill this often in my life and I get worked up trying to
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Firstly, I think maybe more of a routine might help, like talk to your mum at certain times on certain days, maybe? That way you know you'll get to talk to her but it's not always on your mind which if it were homesickness wouldn't help so much. I mean, you KNOW you can talk to her anytime you like, just maybe try to also know that you don't NEED to, maybe?
I'd say the work stress would be the perfect thing to talk to your team leader about, see what she says about the conflictions and if she can help out at all. Also, have you thought about asking to do the admin work you talked to me about before more instead of working on the phones? You said you enjoyed that and if it will mean you being there more and happier, maybe they'll consider a move?
The food issue I can totally help with! XD I know LOTS of great, healthy things you can make and FREEZE to use whenever you like~ Have you thought of maybe buying a few bulk things and making up a massive dinner on Sunday and then freezing what's left to at least give you one or two meals in the week? Because you're damn right! eating healthy, good food is way more expensive than it should be -_- But in bulk? It can be a lot easier!
The health issue I think is more because you're thinking about it. I mean, you've not had a problem with it before, and suddenly all the factors above are there and you're trying to understand why and of course it'll come up because yeah, it probably doesn't help but I honestly don't think it's a primary problem. Maybe you should take a morning off or leave an hour or so early one day to just have a chat with the doctor.
Heh! Hope that all didn't sound condescending and nasty at all... I didn't mean it to! I really just want to help and where as I never moved AWAY from my family, I remember how hard things you think are gonna be easy are at first when you leave home and I TOTALLY get the stress/sickness issue so if I can help? I want to! <3 Let me know how everything goes, text me and I'll give you a call this evening ^^
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