Overdue
Ugh. Broken record. Broken record. Broken record. Broken record. Broken record.
I've had help from a friend who clued me in that I'm completely chasing a type and that type is rarely going to go for me because they're always chasing a type of their own which is also a pattern that they have. It's what I like to call the Sixteen Candles chain of attraction.
But how do you go from liking girls with certain characteristics to not? How do you completely reevaluate what you like in a person? It's not like it needs to be completely changed, but it's in need of a lot of tweaking.
I mean, there are just a few single people that I know and like who don't fit into the category of 'nice person who falls for complete assholes' but I really don't see anything ever happening between myself and any of them. For the best? The more I think about it that's probably true, but I feel I should briefly mention it to some friends sometime because getting it out is helping me feel better about similar situations despite the mixed results. Besides, I don't think I've ever told anyone about my crush on one of those people, meaning it's long overdue to come out.
I've had help from a friend who clued me in that I'm completely chasing a type and that type is rarely going to go for me because they're always chasing a type of their own which is also a pattern that they have. It's what I like to call the Sixteen Candles chain of attraction.
But how do you go from liking girls with certain characteristics to not? How do you completely reevaluate what you like in a person? It's not like it needs to be completely changed, but it's in need of a lot of tweaking.
I mean, there are just a few single people that I know and like who don't fit into the category of 'nice person who falls for complete assholes' but I really don't see anything ever happening between myself and any of them. For the best? The more I think about it that's probably true, but I feel I should briefly mention it to some friends sometime because getting it out is helping me feel better about similar situations despite the mixed results. Besides, I don't think I've ever told anyone about my crush on one of those people, meaning it's long overdue to come out.