fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me

[annun]

So, this guy goes online and signs-up/registers with a website that provides, basically, an online, x-rated version of the SIMS, where you have a virtual character designed off of the physical description that you provide, and you can interact with other actual people. The kicker to this is that while in this virtual world you have your typical

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[annun]

"The thing is, with his "the best defense is an offense" behavior (or at least, that's sure what it sounds like), it sure gives the impression that he feels it's cheating, too - at least to a degree - and so he's dealing with his guilt by avoiding and attacking you."

And that's how almost everyone else has taken this as well. He's not sorry I'm hurt, he's sorry he got caught. The thing that kicks me the most is that whole $20/month thing. He never mentioned it, I only found out about it after digging around the website. The fact that he thinks this is more important reduces the whole relationship to a dollar sign, and I absolutely can't stand that.

And yesterday when I was trying to explain to him that I don't feel that I can openly communicate with him because he's always so defensive and shuts me down, is so perfectly displayed when he turned around and started calling me psychotic.

But hey, done is done right? It's over and I don't have to put up with his crap ever again. And in two weeks when he's trying to crawl back on his hands and knees I'm going to slam the door in his face.