From
"A Boy Named Sue, and a Theory of Names": It’s not that you fight more, but that you learn how to let stuff roll off your back.
I feel so much better for giving Renoa a name like that now. Poor guy with a girl's name. And
moonsliver, I can't tell you how much love I have for you for making the female name jokes so often I felt compelled to include it in his personality. IT FITS. It helps explain why he's gentle and tolerant and why he can tolerate stupid crap and focus on what's REALLY important. Talk about lucky breaks.