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Okay. So back to what I was saying about my mom. She starts crying. Now I know that I did not talk to her in a rude manner. Yes it may have been rude to say some of the things that I said to her in front of Sedric. But damn. She is an adult. And they need for someone to be truthful with them about how they are. My family just constantly tiptoes around issues, and lies, and tells half truths and procrastinate and they definitely do not want to be called out on the things that they have done. And if she and my dad had not done so many things to be ashamed of she would not care. I mean who does the things that my parents do to their kids. Sometimes I feel like I am raising them. With all the money I have given them, and the credit card bills in my name, and the lease thing, and them holding my car. They are so irresponsible when it comes to money. And I have been the one getting fucked. It is just not right. Well either way Sedric and I leave. I get ready to go and console my mom and Sed says "no just let her be alone right now." I agree that this is probably the best idea. We leave. About 5 minutes later my dad calls me and starts cussing at me. Like every 5th word is fuck. He is just cussing and yelling (loud enough for Sed to hear him). He tries to make me feel bad for the way " I talked to my mom." Like he cares. He demeans her all the time. Calls her fat and stupid and all sorts of other things.So I just flip. I start yelling back. I tell him that nobody talks to me that way, and that how dare he yell and cuss at me after everything that I have done for them. Basically every 5th word I said was fuck. He hangs up on. I call back and tell him fuck him. He hangs up. I call back. My mom answers. I tell her that I want an apology from him. And I mean it. After I have lent them my car, and massive amounts of money, and not every thrown those credit card bills they have in my name in their face he has the nerve to talk to me that way. I yell into the phone " I want a FUCKING apology."!!!!!!!! My dad takes the phone from my mom and says " I don't owe you shit" Then he hangs up. So basically that was it. I flipped out. COMPLETELY. I say to Sed, "No that motherfucker did not just say to me that he doesn't owe me shit." Did they forget whose car they have? Forget that I wrote the 600 dollar check for them to move into the house they are in. I call and left a message on their voice mail that basically said I want an apology before the night was over or they were going to regret it. I still haven't gotten my apology. I talked to my mom a little later on tonight. She told my sister to tell me to call her. So I did. And she was still trying to justify what happened. So basically Sed and I are going to get my car tomorrow night. And if they want to fuck with me I will call the cops. Because I am through. They are not going to treat me like that. I am tired of getting walked over, and lied to, and taken advantage of. And I do not want to see them again until I get my apology. And if I do not get that 600 dollars back then they can forget about talking to me ever again at all.
Anyways. I am done venting. I have thought about all this over and over since it happened. And I do not feel like I am being completely vengeful. Some Yes. But I cannot take anymore of them. They could've gotten their car fixed by now. I even offered to help. I really think they just like my car better. It is a nice 99 ford taurus as opposed to their old beat up piece of shit 91. They could have paid the rent on the apartment and not gotten evicted if they had of just worked a little bit harder and gotten full time jobs. Heck if my dad had done anything besides stay on the computer all day. They should have gone to work at McDonalds if that's what it took, especially since they knew that if they got evicted it was going on my credit. So I cannot feel sorry for them anymore. I have to start looking out for myself. And if I do not get that money back( the $600 and the money to pay off the people who own the place they got evicted from), I am taking them to court. For everything. The lease and the credit cards. I talked to Sed. He is always the voice of reason. He agrees. He thinks I should have cut them off a while ago. Now I am finally seeing the light. GRRRRR.
Anyways. I am done venting. I have thought about all this over and over since it happened. And I do not feel like I am being completely vengeful. Some Yes. But I cannot take anymore of them. They could've gotten their car fixed by now. I even offered to help. I really think they just like my car better. It is a nice 99 ford taurus as opposed to their old beat up piece of shit 91. They could have paid the rent on the apartment and not gotten evicted if they had of just worked a little bit harder and gotten full time jobs. Heck if my dad had done anything besides stay on the computer all day. They should have gone to work at McDonalds if that's what it took, especially since they knew that if they got evicted it was going on my credit. So I cannot feel sorry for them anymore. I have to start looking out for myself. And if I do not get that money back( the $600 and the money to pay off the people who own the place they got evicted from), I am taking them to court. For everything. The lease and the credit cards. I talked to Sed. He is always the voice of reason. He agrees. He thinks I should have cut them off a while ago. Now I am finally seeing the light. GRRRRR.