It's a process.
Just when I think I have caught my wind, it is knocked out of me again.
It's not leaps taken in 5 minutes, or even over night... it is steps taken one day at a time, breathing the whole way, learning, and trying my best not to fall backwards.
One of the many things I have learned, and that is become clear, is not to drag others down in my pain. That's a hard one. (Misery really does like company... dang it!)
Let it go... don't transfer it... let it leave me and the world, ending the cycle of emotional poisoning.
In Life there will be love, there will be loss, there will be joy, there will be pain...
We are the only ones in control of our own paths... Chose wisely, chose kindly... and if your path is darkened, take it alone, until the light is found.
Because there is light out there, it just sometimes needs to be rediscovered.
It's not leaps taken in 5 minutes, or even over night... it is steps taken one day at a time, breathing the whole way, learning, and trying my best not to fall backwards.
One of the many things I have learned, and that is become clear, is not to drag others down in my pain. That's a hard one. (Misery really does like company... dang it!)
Let it go... don't transfer it... let it leave me and the world, ending the cycle of emotional poisoning.
In Life there will be love, there will be loss, there will be joy, there will be pain...
We are the only ones in control of our own paths... Chose wisely, chose kindly... and if your path is darkened, take it alone, until the light is found.
Because there is light out there, it just sometimes needs to be rediscovered.