Gender questions again.. y'know, same ol' same ol'

Oct 01, 2009 21:34

So, we all know that everyone has some yin and some yang to them, some more than others. I'm wondering what my ratio is again. It's been a while since I've played the genderfuck game ( Read more... )

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stormye October 3 2009, 01:10:37 UTC
Does it really matter? Those who love you love you because who you are regardless of how male or female you appear that day. Or at least that's how I look at it. Be yourself and you never know whose mind you'll be opening when you do. (Especially the people who are not sexually aware. That made me giggle slightly)

I mean, if it's dependent on the crowd, maybe my parents are right and the reason I'm perpetually single is because I'm more dominant and scare off the boys because I'm not enough of a girl. *shrugs* Clearly that hasn't stopped me from being me or changing that aspect of myself. Who the hell knows....

Hoped that helped? I'm half awake and a little brain dead. If it doesn't make sense...these things happen.

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andytuba October 3 2009, 02:06:48 UTC
Erica, you're awesome. Is it seriously already past 1am on the East Coast? I thought it was just a 3-hour time difference.. oh livejournal shows Greenwich time

Nah, it doesn't really matter that much. It's just that I feel like that around here in Buddha camp, I'm not really secure in how people feel toward me, whether they think I'm stand-offish or odd or blasphemous or just another guy or what. It's also a funky crowd out here 'cos it's a lot of granola hippies, so it's not like there's a lot of shaving or nail polish floating around =D bit of a different world.

I think you scare off the boys 'cos (A) huge gazongas and (B) huge personality. You need a guy that's got a big enough laugh to match yours and, unfortunately, we don't have enough of those. You'll find a nice stallion to ride one of these days.

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andytuba October 3 2009, 02:11:05 UTC
p.s. thanks ♥

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stormye October 3 2009, 03:32:09 UTC
Vet school = perpetually tired, brain dead and dumb in all aspects of life minus classes. (Also, not on East coast, though still east coast time. Iz in St. Kitts, West Indies. Yayz!)

And I <3 you too. Well, from what I've been reading (admittedly not all your posts...sorry!) it seems like you have a pretty accepting crowd of people where you are. Do what you do and see where it goes. The worst that can happen that the people who are offended or werided out leave and you make truer friends. Fuck everyone else. :)

Ah yes, the power of the twins...hehehehe....and I agree. A big laugh is key because mine echoes across oceans. And I will find a pretty pony one day...mwhahahahahhaa

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lesisputnik October 3 2009, 09:25:07 UTC
"That said, I do have a long-standing ideological dispute with the binary division/two-ended spectrum of gender, but it's an ingrained habit from which I don't see too much of an out ( ... )

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andytuba October 3 2009, 18:40:12 UTC
You're right with calling me on labelling and stereotyping people and all that illogicity; thanks for mentioning it. I'm tryna practice that, being more general and accepting of individual people rather than categorizing and assuming that people totally represent their class. Donno, I feel kinda trapped in that mindset, of working within classes and types; even when I consciously fight against it, that bottle is still contained within the box: I'm trying to buck the stereotypes rather than just being an individual.

I'm not sure what to expect of people, though. My current philosophy is to not expect the best of people, so I'll be happily surprised when they turn out to be A-OK; but am I setting myself up for disappointment? What do you expect of people on this sort of thing?

Love, me
P.S. I also get a giggle out of seeing who's paired with whom, not just in terms of gender but in terms of how the different kinds of people come together.

P.P.S. Next time you go out wrangling robots, please to put on YouTube!

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tiny_little_dot October 4 2009, 14:51:03 UTC
your penis is on the internet!

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andytuba October 4 2009, 20:54:47 UTC
Doesn't surprise me. Anywhere in particular?

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tiny_little_dot October 5 2009, 01:13:42 UTC
The same place as Nico's BOOB. ^_^

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andytuba October 5 2009, 01:38:45 UTC
Whoops. Are those photos public these days?

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