What is love to an ENFP?
Since we have the capacity to befriend so many different types of people due to our chameleon-like abilities.... does it confuse anyone else too with how an ENFP will know if they "love" someone as opposed to just liking them or finding them "interesting/entertaining" for the moment?
What makes it real???
I want to know because I find myself easily liking a lot of different types of people. There isn't a set kind of person that I say to myself, "That's the perfect person for me". The "liking" is spread over a wide range of personalities so it makes me wonder, which one do I like the best and which one is best for me. I find myself falling in love with different people in different ways: some intellectually, some emotionally, some sexually... etc. etc. etc. And I look back and wonder, which one of these is real?
It's not solely about pleasing others because if I didn't get anything out of it also, I won't be bothering with it in the first place.
I can love the one that stimulates me intellectually -- where I'm enthralled and hypnotized by their mind, but then I'm left in the cold emotionally.
I can love the one that melts into my soul -- then I'm left wondering, my mind is just coasting and under-stimulated....
I can love the one that pleases me physically -- then again, where are the other two aspects of a relationship that I need and enjoy?
I think that I, as an ENFP, I have the capacity to love in so many different ways, that I wonder which one of the three or four or whatever is the real love.... or can it all be found in one person? I don't know.
What is real? What is true? What is long-lasting?
Out of curiosity, everyone who's reading this should take the test and let me know what they are, here's the link: http://www.okcupid.com/quizzy/take?id=16567335035599898597
Post a comment with a link to your results, or just "ENFP, INTP, etc", but more importantly, give me your thoughts and advice.
What makes it real???
I want to know because I find myself easily liking a lot of different types of people. There isn't a set kind of person that I say to myself, "That's the perfect person for me". The "liking" is spread over a wide range of personalities so it makes me wonder, which one do I like the best and which one is best for me. I find myself falling in love with different people in different ways: some intellectually, some emotionally, some sexually... etc. etc. etc. And I look back and wonder, which one of these is real?
It's not solely about pleasing others because if I didn't get anything out of it also, I won't be bothering with it in the first place.
I can love the one that stimulates me intellectually -- where I'm enthralled and hypnotized by their mind, but then I'm left in the cold emotionally.
I can love the one that melts into my soul -- then I'm left wondering, my mind is just coasting and under-stimulated....
I can love the one that pleases me physically -- then again, where are the other two aspects of a relationship that I need and enjoy?
I think that I, as an ENFP, I have the capacity to love in so many different ways, that I wonder which one of the three or four or whatever is the real love.... or can it all be found in one person? I don't know.
What is real? What is true? What is long-lasting?
Out of curiosity, everyone who's reading this should take the test and let me know what they are, here's the link: http://www.okcupid.com/quizzy/take?id=16567335035599898597
Post a comment with a link to your results, or just "ENFP, INTP, etc", but more importantly, give me your thoughts and advice.