Why are men so fucking annoying and why can't they just BE HONEST!
I asked 2 different guys to chill today, (I asked 1 cuz I knew he'd blow me off)and the other guy I work with...So I IM guy #1 A. to chill&smoke, I laid it out for him, I told him if he didn't want to chill w/ me, just tell me, I won't care, I actually was feeling bad for annoying him so much, but he assured me that he did in fact wanna chill w/ me today and he'd be around after he went job hunting...long story short, obviously I never heard from him...
Guy #2 C. works w/ me, said we'd chill, we were supposed to one day, but didn't. So today I said C. When are we gonna smoke? He said when do you want to (Like I haven't told him I would already!) So I said "how about today after work" he said "Call me" so I did, he actually answered!! (Good Sign!)He said he wanted to go home&Shower after work, (understandable) but he lives out east of me pretty far, but he said he'd call me when het gets outta the shower...(Yay!) we'll see if he actually does though.....UPDATE....He just called me. :( Sad news, but understandable news...Since he lives 1/2 hour from me and I don't drive (sadly enough) I understand that he doesn't want to come all the way back out here, but he did say that he was off tomorrow, and he'd come up to the store@around 3:30 cuz he's gotta take care of some business anyway, so that's cool. He said he'd be up around the time I get off of work, so hopefully something works out...the only problem w/ C. is that he has a supposed girlfriend...First I heard from a man who works w/ him directly that he's got one, then he said they broke up, then he said they never broke up. So I don't know cuz C. has never actually mentioned a girlfriend when I've asked to chill, he's never like "Well I gotta call my GF," or something pertaining to having one...so I don't know...we'll see 2morrow. Hopefully...I just hate to be kept in wait. :)
Guy #2 C. works w/ me, said we'd chill, we were supposed to one day, but didn't. So today I said C. When are we gonna smoke? He said when do you want to (Like I haven't told him I would already!) So I said "how about today after work" he said "Call me" so I did, he actually answered!! (Good Sign!)He said he wanted to go home&Shower after work, (understandable) but he lives out east of me pretty far, but he said he'd call me when het gets outta the shower...(Yay!) we'll see if he actually does though.....UPDATE....He just called me. :( Sad news, but understandable news...Since he lives 1/2 hour from me and I don't drive (sadly enough) I understand that he doesn't want to come all the way back out here, but he did say that he was off tomorrow, and he'd come up to the store@around 3:30 cuz he's gotta take care of some business anyway, so that's cool. He said he'd be up around the time I get off of work, so hopefully something works out...the only problem w/ C. is that he has a supposed girlfriend...First I heard from a man who works w/ him directly that he's got one, then he said they broke up, then he said they never broke up. So I don't know cuz C. has never actually mentioned a girlfriend when I've asked to chill, he's never like "Well I gotta call my GF," or something pertaining to having one...so I don't know...we'll see 2morrow. Hopefully...I just hate to be kept in wait. :)