#random - Because you are a woman
well.
i decide to told this story in here instead on my fb or line, bcs the person can read if i update on them.
start up. today i have final test from morning until afternoon. i barely can go out after 3p.m. dont forget i am fasting.
its 34 celcius and i need to uses bus for go home. its still fine bcs its my daily life. but today the road is so crowded and have traffic jam for almost every road. usually it only take 45 - 60 minutes from uni to my home. but i spent 2 hours or more until i can touch down.
i am not even have time to sit. i only take a shower and go to my late grandma's home bcs we have family gathering.
its still fine. until everything is done. the home is very messy. then, one of my aunt point out to me saying
"You are GIRL. YOU SHOULD SWEEP AND CLEAN THIS HOUSE".
for the fucking sake i barely made to the gathering and you told me to clean the mess. i said dont want. but she keep saying to me that it was GIRLS JOB.
i said that i am deadly tired. but she just get angry and blabbering that she never complain if she need to do housecore after school. HELL yeah. its your probs.
its not end. she still saying that GIRL MUST DO THIS JOB.
Hello!!!! this is not even my own home. why should i?
then why? because i am a girl then i need to do it all??? why you not telling the boys and the children who make the home messier.
why not you told the boys who can sit lazily and not doing anything???
i am really pissed off when people ask me to do something without "please" or "can you?" but just point out. And i really pissed off if someone said BECAUSE ITS WOMAN JOB, ITS GIRL JOB, BECAUSE YOU ARE A GIRL, YOU SHOULD DO THIS BECAUSE YOU ARE A GIRL
LET ME TELL YOU! WOMAN AND MEN HAVE NO DIFFERENCE ABOUT JOB. THAT WHAT I BELIEVE!!
THE ONLY JOB DIFFERENT IS WOMAN CAN PREGNANT AND DELIVER A BABY BUT MAN CANT.
THE DIFFERENT IS ONLY I HAVE A OVUM AND OVARIUM AND MAN HAVE D**K AND SPERM.
ITS ONLY THAT!!
ITS NOT THAT WOMAN SHOULD DO ALL THE HOUSECORE WHEN MEN ARENT. IT WAS THE SOCIETY THAT MAKE THAT JOB.
GENDER EQUALLY IS NOT ONLY ABOUT OUTSIDE OR GOOD JOB. GENDER EQUALLY STAND FOR EVERYTHING!!!
YOU SAID GENDER EQUALLY, BUT YOU STILL DISCRAGE WOMAN! YOU ARENT DO GENDER EQUALLY. YOU JUST DO WHAT SOCIETY TOLD YOU TO DO.
IF WOMAN CANT MAKE THEM SELF EQUAL, THEN WHO???
_angella_
ps : sorry for this random ballbering. but i just cant stand it.