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[amblinx1138]

It has occured to me that I don't think I can talk to anyone regarding my own personal pain, sadness, anger, or frustrations

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[ijuanabkewl]

i so sorry jerkoffs hurt you. i am here for you!! lemme know who they are and i will take care of them for you

[amblinx1138]

well thank you.

[darthpraetorian]

I wish I could offer some kind of advice, but I have many of the same problems myself

All I can do is offer my condolence and friendship

Which you already had...so I'm really not giving you much I suppose, but I never much liked giving to begin with

YOU GAVE BOTH DOGS AWAY!? YOU KNOW HOW I FEEL ABOUT GIVING!

[amblinx1138]

Thank you for those. I value both of them.

[emmerz87]

i think alot of people feel this way
people (especially people our age) are mostly just concerned with themselves and arent too thrilled to hear anyone elses problems. but u know if u really need to talk about ur problems to someone who wont stop listening u should get a therapist.

[amblinx1138]

I spose. But I'm not really eager to PAY for a service I myself offer free of charge to countless other people. And I shouldn't have to either. It bothers me more when people break your trust, or use what you said against you. And my REAL problem is I can't tell people I'm pissed off at that I'm pissed off at them.

[emmerz87]

well that makes me real confidant that im gonna make a living when i grow up when people dont want to pay for something that might make them feel better. as for ur real problem the only advice i can give u is to start admitting to people that theyre pissing u off.

[amblinx1138]

That's just me. Lots of people will pay you for that, and I'm sure therapists are helpful. if I recall, u weren't too thrilled with yours though.

And your advice is something I REALLY shouldn't do, all things considering.....

[staegs86]

I still say let your feelings out -- if you continue to house them -- they will make you feel worse and worse.

If people will try to turn them around on you they don't deserve to be your friends in the first place. A friendship is defined by a genuine care for each person in the relationship. If the other just wants to blame you and throw shit at you -- they really don't care -- so by definition -- are they really your friend?

And if that doesn't work -- give em hot milk....cookies.

And remember -- I'm always here for you to listen and in the words of the Go Go's -- my (our) lips are sealed.

Your pal,
Stevie

[amblinx1138]

Thank you. Indeed, you are a good friend. I am blessed with lots of them, and you're right about the whole genuine care deal, which is why the few who are more 30/70 really get on my nerves, and frankly aren't worth a damned phone call anymore. It's silly. I'm really only mad at like one or two people. I know you'd listen, but I'm also very easily embarassed. Even though I rarely accept the invitation, it's always good to know the friends who TRUELY DO want to listen to you.

[holycathiders]

if you want to let off some steam you can take it out on my neighbors balls

[amblinx1138]

thanks gorgeous. Your wording is always so "tact," isn't it.

[holycathiders]

richard
i heart you more than you can ever realize