i think alot of people feel this way people (especially people our age) are mostly just concerned with themselves and arent too thrilled to hear anyone elses problems. but u know if u really need to talk about ur problems to someone who wont stop listening u should get a therapist.
I spose. But I'm not really eager to PAY for a service I myself offer free of charge to countless other people. And I shouldn't have to either. It bothers me more when people break your trust, or use what you said against you. And my REAL problem is I can't tell people I'm pissed off at that I'm pissed off at them.
well that makes me real confidant that im gonna make a living when i grow up when people dont want to pay for something that might make them feel better. as for ur real problem the only advice i can give u is to start admitting to people that theyre pissing u off.
The advice you gave to me was to admit to people that they're upsetting me. My problem with that is, people frequently feel the need to go into defensive mode and defend their own integrity by coming up with an excuse instead of simply saying sorry and trying harder in the future. I HATE making a big deal out of things, but sometimes people hurt ya
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hmm well it seems that i have said sorry before and i get the same reaction from u so it really doesnt matter what my response is cuz u act the same way. and im sorry i didnt call u, my friend was having major trouble with his parents and almost got kicked out of his house and i needed to go see him. sorry. and im really sorry were doing this on lj.
I appreciate your apology. My reaction has stayed the same probably because the action that caused it has stayed the same/has continued to happen. I don't think I've ever really been too harsh on you about it though. I agree, it is silly to have these conversations on live journal, and I would like to talk to you in person, but I don't know when I'll next see you.
people (especially people our age) are mostly just concerned with themselves and arent too thrilled to hear anyone elses problems. but u know if u really need to talk about ur problems to someone who wont stop listening u should get a therapist.
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And your advice is something I REALLY shouldn't do, all things considering.....
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and my therapist was court ordered and i couldnt exactly just tell her all my problems, she stuck to a specific topic.
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