HARD THINGS YOU HAVE TO DO
David "my son" has been gone since mid Dec to his mom's/grandparents. I was a time for him to visit with his mom and grandparents. I have been having issues with David for a bit, drugs, staying out late, coming and going as he pleases, and few other things.
After some discussion I spoke with his mom and grandmother, i figured he has been drug free and clearing his mind a bit I'd try to get him to do his GED program. They live on a mountain, near the university of north Carolina so they offer GED courses.
They tried and of course he resists, and the game plan was to get him in 2 weeks, but after another discussion, and the events of the last few weeks i figured it best for him to stay there.
This week, there were shots fired at a house, and some folks got arrested. I have also found out that a few other raids of houses near by.
I really don't want Dave in that mess and I really don't want to be in this mess at all. i spoke to Grandma tonight and said Dave can't come back so fast and he wants to come back he needs to go to GED then come back.
I spoke with Dave tonight and of course things went downhill fast. He does not want to to a damn thing for anything. He is more worried bout a job, which is crap, he don't give rats ass bout anything. He wants to come home get high, screw his gf and go on about his merry life. Making everyone else life miserable, and well doing nothing for him self. He turns 18 in a few months and is a 8th grade drop out, I don't really consider 9th grade attendance for a few days worthy.
So once again he hangs up on me and he's stuck there for a few weeks more, hopefully this will work.
After some discussion I spoke with his mom and grandmother, i figured he has been drug free and clearing his mind a bit I'd try to get him to do his GED program. They live on a mountain, near the university of north Carolina so they offer GED courses.
They tried and of course he resists, and the game plan was to get him in 2 weeks, but after another discussion, and the events of the last few weeks i figured it best for him to stay there.
This week, there were shots fired at a house, and some folks got arrested. I have also found out that a few other raids of houses near by.
I really don't want Dave in that mess and I really don't want to be in this mess at all. i spoke to Grandma tonight and said Dave can't come back so fast and he wants to come back he needs to go to GED then come back.
I spoke with Dave tonight and of course things went downhill fast. He does not want to to a damn thing for anything. He is more worried bout a job, which is crap, he don't give rats ass bout anything. He wants to come home get high, screw his gf and go on about his merry life. Making everyone else life miserable, and well doing nothing for him self. He turns 18 in a few months and is a 8th grade drop out, I don't really consider 9th grade attendance for a few days worthy.
So once again he hangs up on me and he's stuck there for a few weeks more, hopefully this will work.