Oy. Boy.
I was listening to a guy friend complaining about women on dating apps.
He's long time divorced and in his 50s. He says women on dating sites are all looking for guys over 6 feet tall, making at least 6 figures, and who will spoil them rotten.
He says these women do not realize that they are over 30yrs old with 2 kids from a guy they didnt marry because he didnt make enough money and no one wants these women. These women are not going to land the rich guys. Why does Leo DiCaprio dump girls when they turn 25? Because he can! There are always more.
My friend says men want traditionsl wives just as much as women want traditional men. Men want to come home & someone is there to make them a sandwich.
All of this I can see his point. Right? Right.
But something is sticking with me in my replay of the discussion. Because it began to have an angle towards "if there's a maid and a cook, what's the wife doing all day? Nothing that deserves a $2000 a month wardrobe budget!"
He said "women are born with their worth but men have to earn it. Men need to work to create wealth and success."
O.o o.O
Um...What?? Women are BORN with their value? You mean that thing where they can make the babies? Sex?
Dude. There's your problem! Is that the standard you are using?
Newsflash: Men are also born to make babies. Women have sex with men who are successful. And with cute men. And men who make them laugh. And whatever reason she wants!
Women are in fact born with a ton of OTHER things going for them. They like the same stuff. Go find one of THOSE women? If you are not a sugar daddy stop whining that you can not buy a sugar baby!
STOP CHASING SUGAR BABIES.
Can you make her sandwich? Then go look for women who are looking for sandwiches! Go!
He's long time divorced and in his 50s. He says women on dating sites are all looking for guys over 6 feet tall, making at least 6 figures, and who will spoil them rotten.
He says these women do not realize that they are over 30yrs old with 2 kids from a guy they didnt marry because he didnt make enough money and no one wants these women. These women are not going to land the rich guys. Why does Leo DiCaprio dump girls when they turn 25? Because he can! There are always more.
My friend says men want traditionsl wives just as much as women want traditional men. Men want to come home & someone is there to make them a sandwich.
All of this I can see his point. Right? Right.
But something is sticking with me in my replay of the discussion. Because it began to have an angle towards "if there's a maid and a cook, what's the wife doing all day? Nothing that deserves a $2000 a month wardrobe budget!"
He said "women are born with their worth but men have to earn it. Men need to work to create wealth and success."
O.o o.O
Um...What?? Women are BORN with their value? You mean that thing where they can make the babies? Sex?
Dude. There's your problem! Is that the standard you are using?
Newsflash: Men are also born to make babies. Women have sex with men who are successful. And with cute men. And men who make them laugh. And whatever reason she wants!
Women are in fact born with a ton of OTHER things going for them. They like the same stuff. Go find one of THOSE women? If you are not a sugar daddy stop whining that you can not buy a sugar baby!
STOP CHASING SUGAR BABIES.
Can you make her sandwich? Then go look for women who are looking for sandwiches! Go!