so let's be honest for a second...
I miss Steven more than I can stand. When he found out that he was being stationed in Japan, he immediately asked me to go with him. I couldn't imagine simply droppin everything - my life, my friends, my lease, my degree, my "perfect wedding" - and going to Japan with him. So, I said "we'll wait until after I graduate
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by sticking around you can plan the wedding more efficently, finish your degree, line up a proper job for when he comes back, and not regret missing your final year of college.
additionally, if you cut back your wardrobe budget, you could probably afford to fly out to japan durring the summer and again in the spring.
in the end, staying here will teach you to appreciate him much more than if you never spend a significant amount of time apart; something that can't be learned any other way.
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The other side of the coin is that there will always be a college when you get back. Only if your faith in the relationship is as 100% secure as the odds that CU will still be around a year from now is it safe to stay here.
Here's the bottom line: If it's a tough decision where either direction has an upside...you can't make a wrong decision. If you left you continue to work on your relationship with Steven and if you stay you establish some security for yourself by getting the degree out of the way. You need a degree as an insurance policy.
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I think I recognize you from myspace... am I right? I think you added me! Anyways, I'm sorry to hear about your boyfriend! Things will work out... just remember you have to go through the rain to get to the rainbow! (I know it sounds dorky, but its true!) Hope you feel better!
Shay
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just kidding, since I added you, I must be the stalker. I like that dorky rainbow quote... it's definitely true! Thanks so much for your comment! :)
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