Late Night Ramblings: Frienship, Time-Traveler's Wife, Naruto

Oct 02, 2009 01:47

Frustration: taking an active part in a friend's interests, but not having that effort returned ( Read more... )

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mogchi October 2 2009, 20:31:14 UTC
Some people are just that way, I don't think your friend intentionally doen't show interest in your suggesstions, I just think some people push their interests onto others but never care about other peoples interests. One of my best friends is that way, he makes me do all sorts of things and it's like pulling teeth for me to get him to do something I think he would enjoy. I've learned to deal with it, but occassionally we fight about that very thing. I feel like I give give give and he takes takes takes. Anyhow, try not to take it personal. I am sure the things you suggest are not boring! I wish I could have came outa my shell in high school and talk to you, I know I used to see you in the halls with some anime shirt on and think to myself how cool you must be. Eh.

As far as no one wanting to read your posts...how can you say that after all the comments you get? I personally love reading yours and everyone posts. I honestly think I have like 3-4 friends who even glance over my posts but I don't really care. Well, if it's a post that is serious I do, but for the most part I love posting for me, and being able to get it out, or even go back after a couple yrs to see what I was or wasn't going through. Infact I posted about our first snow last yr, and last week I re-looked it up just so I can be prepared this yr.

A lot of people who have seen the movie Time Traveler's Wife said they couldn't connect with the people either, altho it was a good concept. I haven't seen or read it yet.

I hope you keep posting, if nothing else for you. <3<3<3 I know how hard friends are to come by and keep, I have that problem to. Mainly cus I don't put enough effort into it.

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