So do you date you best friend?airbuttercupApril 18 2005, 12:20:08 UTC
Thank you...I know it includes you.
So I don't know if Sam was just talking out of her ass, but the whole fight with Stephenie stemmed from something different...something I didn't expect...and that's the fact that she doesn't know where we stand. We totally send each other mixed signals, and this is causing frustration on both of our parts. I have brought this up with her before, and she denied it. That was about a year ago.
She brought it up this time. And we talked about a lot of shit. And I realized that she does get me on many levels. And there are things, like when I hooked up with the old guy at work, that I thought disgusted her. But I was wrong. She was all like, "Whatever, if it hadn't turned out so bad, then maybe it wouldn't have been something that you were ashamed of." Which is ture. But for some reason, I thought she was totally weirded out by it.
Maybe our issue is that we project our feelings onto one another, and we send mixed signals. So all this shit gets fucked up all the time. And then I get pissed and think that she hates me. But a lot of what we talked about yesterday put a lot of those feelings aside. Yes, from day one, I had my doubts about her. But I think that there is no need for that doubt now. I think that I am totally over it.
Do I sound crazy? I feel like this all sounds very quick...but after we talked about everything, shit just seemed to be resolved.
So the question is...do you date your best friend?
So I don't know if Sam was just talking out of her ass, but the whole fight with Stephenie stemmed from something different...something I didn't expect...and that's the fact that she doesn't know where we stand. We totally send each other mixed signals, and this is causing frustration on both of our parts. I have brought this up with her before, and she denied it. That was about a year ago.
She brought it up this time. And we talked about a lot of shit. And I realized that she does get me on many levels. And there are things, like when I hooked up with the old guy at work, that I thought disgusted her. But I was wrong. She was all like, "Whatever, if it hadn't turned out so bad, then maybe it wouldn't have been something that you were ashamed of." Which is ture. But for some reason, I thought she was totally weirded out by it.
Maybe our issue is that we project our feelings onto one another, and we send mixed signals. So all this shit gets fucked up all the time. And then I get pissed and think that she hates me. But a lot of what we talked about yesterday put a lot of those feelings aside. Yes, from day one, I had my doubts about her. But I think that there is no need for that doubt now. I think that I am totally over it.
Do I sound crazy? I feel like this all sounds very quick...but after we talked about everything, shit just seemed to be resolved.
So the question is...do you date your best friend?
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