Ambitions and Boys

[aimallow]

Okay, I need to get this off my chest:

I'm NOT looking to be a housewife at all. I want a career. I want to know I can rely on myself financially. I want an identity.

But I also want to date someone again. I hate being single. I can't help that part of myself. Of course everyone else (including those IN A RELATIONSHIP) are always like, "Oh be

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[castles_crumble]

dear kelly, when people say enjoy being single it's bull. and yes bridgewater is like 70% females and 30% males. but it's also absolutely true when they say it comes along when you're not looking. the best you can do is to remind yourself to enjoy your time with your friends and school now. cause when a guy does come along your gonna miss not being on a constant emotional rollercoster. and don't worry so much either. you're an awesome person. he'll come along soon. probably through the dunkies drive thru or something XD

[leeli18]

I agree. Single is miserable, especially when everyone else has a someone...
But it does come when you don't look. Which is probably equally awful.
And being single at 22 is nothing. I know several other absolutely wonderful girls in their twenties who haven't EVER had a boyfriend or a first kiss or anything. It's not because they don't want one, it's just that the right one has still yet to show up (it doesn't help that the maturity level of the average 20yr old male is....rather lacking).
And don't let your family pressure you. I don't think they really mean too. They're probably just thinking something like "If our son can get a wonderful girl, doesn't our wonderful girl deserve a wonderful boy too?" It's logic filled with flawed approaches...God Bless parental love sometimes. XD

[leeli18]

Dude what?