Never date stupid curried dothead indians...
Stupid indians, I wish we could pack them up and send them back to their own country! After nearly 3 hours of talking with my (ex)boyfriend, we have still not cometo a solution and it is three o clock on the morning. I couldnt eat, sleep, or do much of anything today because I am so upset. Although he promised me he would never get an arranged marriage, he is now because his family threatened to disown him. This hurts me more than anything because he loves me so much and is willing to throw me away? We kept going around in circles... he says he cannot do anything about it and I say he can say NO...what it comes down to is he is picking them over me. I feel so betrayed b/c he told me for 8 months that he didnt care what his parents said and that he would never get an arranged marriage. He even went to India for his brothers and saw how messed up and horrible they are and said he was never getting one. On Wednesday, he told me he would never get one... all of the sudden on Sunday he calls and said he is. To make a long story short I beat him up, poured hot coffee all over him and left him to find his way back to the train station. There are not enough words to describe how betrayed I feel, and how broken I am. He doesn't believe me... even though he said he wanted us to get married and was planning our future... but he is throwing it all away to make his parents happy! I have never loved nor been so loved, everything was so perfect and I love him so much, I dont want to live my life without him. He claims to love me, but I guess not enough if he is unwilling to stand up for himself. The girl is a billionaires daughter and his stupid selfish greedy father wants the girls money. He thinks he can just get divorced after she comes here. He is living in a dream world...I want to wake him up but he will not listen. He said he will try and think of a way for us to be together, but he already has his mind made up that we can never be. Sad, yes that is why I am up at 3am, I cannot sleep and I want to throw up. How could God do this to me? How could he give me someone that writes me poems, texts me, calls me five times a day and has so much in common with me and then take him away without me having any say in it.
I am so mad that he dated me in the first place, I would have never dated him if I knew it would be like this. If it was not for the constant reassurance that "I dont care what my parents think" and "I am never getting an arranged marriage" I would be long gone. ALL LIES!!! ALL LIES!!!! Now I look like the bad guy b/c I am supposed to feel sorry for him b/c "Its a hard decision" but I should have never been part of it in the first place! If he had been honest and said that he is getting an arranged marriage he would have spared both of us immense heartache. How can he say he loves me and give up that quickly? and to even suggest that I date him while he is married... he deserved the kicks in the balls that I gave him. If I had to do it all over again I would have slammed the car door on him a couple more times. I dont feel sorry for him, I hope he is miserable forever with his curried vag from India... I am praying that something will happen so that we can be together, hopefully he will be a man instead of a wussy stupid moron. You are an adult, you are 24 not 2! JUST SAY NO! His parents dont want the best for him, they want the money, and he is too dumb to realize this. Who needs parents like that? hopefully a miracle will happen, hopefully...I should have listened. The moral of the story is never date them b/c they will screw you over because they are so far up their parents butts that they cannot see they are in america and that they are adults.
I am so mad that he dated me in the first place, I would have never dated him if I knew it would be like this. If it was not for the constant reassurance that "I dont care what my parents think" and "I am never getting an arranged marriage" I would be long gone. ALL LIES!!! ALL LIES!!!! Now I look like the bad guy b/c I am supposed to feel sorry for him b/c "Its a hard decision" but I should have never been part of it in the first place! If he had been honest and said that he is getting an arranged marriage he would have spared both of us immense heartache. How can he say he loves me and give up that quickly? and to even suggest that I date him while he is married... he deserved the kicks in the balls that I gave him. If I had to do it all over again I would have slammed the car door on him a couple more times. I dont feel sorry for him, I hope he is miserable forever with his curried vag from India... I am praying that something will happen so that we can be together, hopefully he will be a man instead of a wussy stupid moron. You are an adult, you are 24 not 2! JUST SAY NO! His parents dont want the best for him, they want the money, and he is too dumb to realize this. Who needs parents like that? hopefully a miracle will happen, hopefully...I should have listened. The moral of the story is never date them b/c they will screw you over because they are so far up their parents butts that they cannot see they are in america and that they are adults.