Sign the papers and move on. This guy had you scared shitless, not to mention was looking at CHILD PORNOGRAPHY. Who knows what he could do to your child! He is using you and manipulating you. My father was the same way with my mother and she stayed with him for 3 years after I was born before she had enough. He'd come home drunk, fool around on her, even pulled a gun on her, and when she'd try to leave him he'd beg and plead for her to stay and say he was going to kill himself if she didn't stay. Well eventually she didn't stay and he didn't kill himself (well, accidentally he did... drugs killed him last year).
The point is that he'd always say he changed or would change, but never did. If this guy hasn't changed by now, he's not going to. You need to report his emails to the authorities and have him committed for suicidal thoughts. And then you need to get a restraining order against him. You need to get yourself into therapy (if you're not already) and you need to try your best to forget all about him. Remember that it's not just about you and him, there is a child involved in it. And if you fear he could harm you, then what's to stop him from harming your innocent child? Sometimes the right choice is the hardest one, but I think you know what the right one is.
The point is that he'd always say he changed or would change, but never did. If this guy hasn't changed by now, he's not going to. You need to report his emails to the authorities and have him committed for suicidal thoughts. And then you need to get a restraining order against him. You need to get yourself into therapy (if you're not already) and you need to try your best to forget all about him. Remember that it's not just about you and him, there is a child involved in it. And if you fear he could harm you, then what's to stop him from harming your innocent child? Sometimes the right choice is the hardest one, but I think you know what the right one is.
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