did I do the right thing?

[kate_nooooo]

I really need to put this out there and get some feedback, because I'm really confused and have no one to talk to. I would be VERY thankful to anyone who can take the time to offer some insight or talk to me about this

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[seekingzen]

He's the only one who can decide what's best for him. You would be better off making choices and decisions based on what's best for YOU.

[kate_nooooo]

that's a good point... thank you.

[kate_nooooo]

... and I guess that means the problem is, that I don't know what's best for me... hmm.

[seekingzen]

At 22, very few people know much of anything about what's best for them. I sure as hell didn't, and I've got a set of divorce papers to prove it. ;-)

[nella580]

Which is why I think it's the completely right choice for you to be single for right now. It's the perfect opportunity to find yourself, work on your depression, work on your career and become a happier, better rounded person overall. You may have dodged a bullet there in him not being ready to move in yet because I don't think you're quite ready yet either, but maybe you were viewing it as something that will prove his feelings for you and bring you closer together. The first year of living together for a lot of people us the worst year of the relationship and you both have to be emotionally ready to take that on.