Feb 01, 2007 20:32
Okay I'm frustrated. I'm going to admit it. This insistence isn't really pressuring me because of my firm belief, but I think it's time that we set an understanding that I have a firm foundation in my belief and that NO ONE is going to change it by merely talking about it.
Relationships end.
Big Deal.
It's fucking high school.
Yeah, I know it hurts, but seriously, it's not life threatening. Sure, allow it to hurt for the while that it does, but don't make it a life or death situation. You'll get over it, believe it or not.
It's fucking high school.
I can't emphasize that enough it seems...
People DON'T all go off and get married and live happily ever after.
Sure, there's like 1 in 100 couples or some very low statistic, I don't care. It's not very probable is the point, you can't refute that.
These relationships are meant to teach you things about yourself and others.
They are not meant to last forever.
You're just finding who you are as an individual, how are you supposed to also find who you want to be with for the rest of your life? You don't even know what you want out of the significant other yet. It makes no sense.
I'm sick of people acting like they're getting married, and people asking me why I don't have a boyfriend. No, I'm not lesbian. High school relationships are NOT important, nor are they a priority in my life.
If you're in a good one, great. Good for you. Glad you're happy. Don't force a relationship upon someone else though. If someone isn't actively looking in the dating market, chances are, they're not interested. Just to let you know.
I'm frustrated when people put such a damn emphasis on relationships, they're not that fucking important and the only person who agrees with my insistence is apparently Hottmann. High school romantic relationships should not define your high school "career." It's friendships that last. It's friendships that matter.
Don't linger onto your old relationships from forever ago. It doesn't make you a better person.
Don't linger onto your friends' old relationships.
They're in the past, they don't matter. This is especially true if it is no longer effecting them or you, as in if they aren't considering getting back together or some what romantically involved, and/or you're getting tangled up in the mess some how. I seriously don't see how it matters.
Leave the roadkill alone. It's dead.
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