I debated as to whether or not to comment on this comment for quite some time. I know that this anonymous person isn't really going to "hear" what I'm saying anyways . . .a) because this person obviously has a very large stick up his or her butt and b) because there's really no sense in arguing or even trying to reason with someone who obviously is using misinformation to make his or her point. This comment is for Kristin.
The fact of the matter is . . .Kristin is a busy person. So am I. So are about half the people I know. We're at the age right now where we're all trying to balance school, work, love, family and friends and it's just not easy. I have very little time to spend with my friends and unlike Kristin I use the telephone as my solution because I enjoy it. This, however, also causes my friends and I problems . . .it has gotten to the point where I actually schedule phone calls days, even weeks, in advance to make sure that I stay current with my friends. In Kristin's defense, the last time we planned to get together . . . I was the one that was too busy, not Kristin!
I wish this anonymous poster would take a minute to closely examine there own life and friendships before trying to call Kristin out on hers. This person is pretending that hanging out or getting together with friends is a one way street, when it actually takes two people. I don't spend much time with Kristin because WE ARE BOTH BUSY . . .so I can't blame it all on Kristin now can I??
I'm not trying to say Kristin is perfect, because that would defeat my purpose. What I'm trying to do is point out that Kristin is trying the best she can. She's a busy girl, she goes to school . . .she works . . .she lives on her own . . .she just got engaged . . .and now she's planning a wedding . . .how can she possibly make time for EVERYTHING AND EVERYONE ALL THE TIME?? She can't . . .so anonymous poster . . .be happy with the time you have had with Kristin in the past and in the future look for other means of maintaining your friendship with her . . .although, Kristin I would advice you to either forget about this person altogether or re-examine the relationship you thought you had. Friends are understanding not judgmental . . .honest sometimes brutally so, but not without being able to look at themselves at the same time, not anonymously, and not without allowing you the chance to speak honestly about them.
The fact of the matter is . . .Kristin is a busy person. So am I. So are about half the people I know. We're at the age right now where we're all trying to balance school, work, love, family and friends and it's just not easy. I have very little time to spend with my friends and unlike Kristin I use the telephone as my solution because I enjoy it. This, however, also causes my friends and I problems . . .it has gotten to the point where I actually schedule phone calls days, even weeks, in advance to make sure that I stay current with my friends. In Kristin's defense, the last time we planned to get together . . . I was the one that was too busy, not Kristin!
I wish this anonymous poster would take a minute to closely examine there own life and friendships before trying to call Kristin out on hers. This person is pretending that hanging out or getting together with friends is a one way street, when it actually takes two people. I don't spend much time with Kristin because WE ARE BOTH BUSY . . .so I can't blame it all on Kristin now can I??
I'm not trying to say Kristin is perfect, because that would defeat my purpose. What I'm trying to do is point out that Kristin is trying the best she can. She's a busy girl, she goes to school . . .she works . . .she lives on her own . . .she just got engaged . . .and now she's planning a wedding . . .how can she possibly make time for EVERYTHING AND EVERYONE ALL THE TIME?? She can't . . .so anonymous poster . . .be happy with the time you have had with Kristin in the past and in the future look for other means of maintaining your friendship with her . . .although, Kristin I would advice you to either forget about this person altogether or re-examine the relationship you thought you had. Friends are understanding not judgmental . . .honest sometimes brutally so, but not without being able to look at themselves at the same time, not anonymously, and not without allowing you the chance to speak honestly about them.
Love ya,
Julie
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