Geez...
Ugh! It is so frustrating that every time I get online and get on facebook I see that someone else is married or engaged or about to have a baby. Don't get me wrong, I'm happy for all of them, but I'm also jealous. I shouldn't be; I personally am not ready to be any of those things
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Me too. Most of my friends from normal highschool are running around with toddlers behind them now whist I'm still enjoying my time sitting in my room not going out for fear of rejection, getting my heart broken, and whatnot. Taken it in though, there's still 10 some odd years to find someone to settle down with.. my dad was just saying the other day that he didn't meet my mom until he was in his late 20's early 30's because of his physics degrees that got in the way and took up most of his teen life.
I guess being an old lady with cats is unfulfilling in the end but who's to say that she wasn't happy going up to that point? Atleast currently, it looks like I won't be the typical 40 year old living in my parent's basement as A, my parents don't have a basement and B, I'm already out in the real world and not like that guy from "Failure to Launch".
I guess you could become a lesbian.. but then I'd have to disown you because I can't having someone I love dying of aids.
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What I'm trying to say, I guess, is that without the last line, I'd be just like any normal bum who'd put in his two cents and not give a fuck about the repercussions of his words and how adversely they would affect your current mode in reading the comment. Be happy Lauren, that's all I aim for in life for you to be, so go do it. ^.^;;
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Don't worry about not seeing enough guys wherever you end up. You are Lauren, you could wind up in the middle of a three person town in Siberia, and there would still somehow be 8 guys around vying to be the one lucky enough to go on a date with you.
You have no reason at all to feel inadequate. Most of the people doing all these things are thinking just how lucky you are to be able to go so far in school, the grass is always greener on the other side, etc.
If your goal is to have a family eventually then you will have one. Sure you may be slightly older than your friends when you have your first child, but does that mean you are going to love your husband or your children any less?
Lastly, please tell me your friend was joking about lesbianism causing AIDS?
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so, assuming a lack of sarcasm: You are saying that gays are somehow biologically different enough that a disease would be targetted towards them, and that the same biological difference is somehow a reason for them to be targetted by aids?
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That said your concern that you'll end up in a small town where there are no guys is a little absurd, because, as CB2k2 said 8 guys, 4 of which you'll actually like, will inevitably come out of the woodwork wherever you go.
And you are certainly not inadequate. You are the most awesome person ever, so just accept the fact that those things you're jealous of will happen when they're ready to happen to you, so just sit back and enjoy vet school until then.
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And no matter what I say, you'll negate it, cause you think I'm things I feel I'm not...so we wouldn't get anywhere, really.
But thanks and I heart you.
And you're right. For now, at least, school is definitely a priority.
And I can't wait till the future!!
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And I"m thinking and wondering..
Don't, for the love of god, get engaged or married soon. You gotta give a man atleast sometime to recover his money. I defintely do not have the budget right now to supply that perfect wedding gift nor can I at this point time my leave right to make the wedding. Just some thoughts to take into consideration if you don't want to put this guy in serious limit of bankruptcy.
(The above is in all seriousness, I promise)
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And no one said you had to get me a wedding gift anyway.
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